Want to know if she is right for you… but not sure what questions to ask?
These questions are more interesting than “what do you do?” Plus… they will give you the ammo you need to get her into bed for some fast sex!
Learn the questions that identify a woman’s personality (and more) by reading below.
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Ask her the right questions to learn ALL about her…
There are 5 questions that men ought to consider asking a woman when there is a potential for a full-time relationship. These questions might surprise you, but trust me… they work.
Dating is like those tootsie-rolls with the surprise in the middle, you just never know what you’re going to be putting in your mouth. Sometimes it’s very good and sometimes, alas, it’s just not your flavor. I like cherry flavor, and don’t want to open up a cherry tootsie-roll and find out it’s banana. The same should go for someone you could possibly fall in love with. Know what you are getting into and if it’s what you are expecting.
Question 1: Do you have any extreme (or even moderately extreme) sexual perversions?
If you have a mild case of being addicted to sexual ideas that may be abnormal, you may want to raise this with your date using a good sense of humor. For her, it may not be an issue, she might even be excited about it. Approach the question from a light hearted point of view - you could say something like “Hey do you want to split an appetizer? By the way if we get serious I’m going to want you to dress up like a pony and ride you around the house.” Guess what? It’s never too soon to bring those things up.
Obviously, you’re being funny, but there’s actually something you can learn about women here. Women are cool with sex and sexuality. They enjoy having fun, laughing, and joking about HAVING sex. However, if you are relaxed about sex around a woman, she is going to be relaxed about sex with you. It’s always nice to find out about someone and their sexual perversions before you consider a long-term relationship. After all, who wants to come home after a long day at work and find their significant other having a three-some in bed that you never agreed to, nor are turned on to? There are questions that men should ask women to circumvent any possible problems that may arise later.
Question Number 2: Have you ever set bugs on fire?
I don’t want to play “So I Married An Axe Murderer”. If you are some kind of creep with violent tendencies then tell me now. I don’t want to find out later that the cat keeps running away from you because you have been punting it across the room when I wasn’t looking, simply for shedding on your coat. Sociopaths start their lives by being mean to animals when they are young. Unless you are a sociopath yourself, and plan on making this part of your dating ritual, it’s always wise to find out how a potential relationship treats animals.
No, I don’t want to marry the hottest, richest, best-looking woman out there. I just don’t want to marry a person I have to live in fear of. This may help you relax about talking to women and dating. Hell, you’re way better than an axe murderer (right?), so why date someone with that potential. The trick is to relax around women and just be yourself. When she is shy, or reserved, or too quiet, you won’t be thinking that you are not good enough for her or that you are not the perfect knight in shining armor. But you might want to think about if she is a princess in tarnished armor, or you may find out your life is way more exciting than you want or need.
Question Number 3: When is the last time you cried?
If it was longer than a year ago, I might have concerns. It means you might have a medical problem or you might have accidentally left your feelings back in 1994. (Or it could mean that you’ve had an incredibly awesome and upbeat year, I suppose). I’m not saying you need to be sitting next to me holding my hand and crying during the finale of American Idol, but I would like you to be able to squeeze a few tears out if something really emotionally intense happens. Just so I know you are still in there and have emotions.
Have you ever felt nervous talking to a woman on your first date? She’s telling you it’s completely fine to be nervous because she wants someone emotional. She wants a man who can feel nervous talking to a beautiful woman. That is why I’ve always recommended sharing your vision for your life with women you meet. You should also share your emotions and your goals so that they know how amazing it will be to be a part of your life. Just consider living with a woman who is emotionless, because there is something mentally wrong here. It’s like conversing with someone who talks in monotone during all their conversations. Would that really be an exciting aspect of a future relationship. Yuck.
Question Number Four: Are you going to try and win at every game?
Are you the type of woman who can’t even let a five-year-old beat you in Go Fish? Will you run around the lawn screaming with delight when you beat my 65 year-old-father at bocce? Everyone likes a winner, but even more, I like people who understand how to pick their battles. Sometimes letting someone else come first in the game makes you a winner. Being a winner is great, but it’s also fine to lose. Remember, it’s not how you play the game, but it’s how you are able to handle losing that really counts.
This is a great tip. Don’t be afraid to let a woman win because it shows your sensitive side. You can show her how caring you are by letting her win a game of pool or trivia. She doesn’t have to cry when watching The Notebook, but hell, I cry after watching The Notebook. If you want to have a great date with your girlfriend that is followed by some great sex, then play Battleship and let her win. Then cook dinner together. These little things go a LONG way with women. But you also don’t want to date a woman who is a sore loser. If they are a sore loser at games, then they are a sore loser in the game of life.
Question Number Five: Do you have a savings account?
No, her change jar doesn’t count. It’s not that she already has to have the perfect 401K plan picked out and be able to afford a down payment on two houses. I don’t give a shit about your income. I just want to know that you try to at least occasionally put some money away for whatever fun stuff and/or emergencies the future may bring. Being able to put some money away, even if it’s $25 when she can, shows that she has a little maturity and self-restraint, two very sexy qualities past the age of 25. It shouldn’t be surprising that men want a little financial security from their women.
Men all have priorities in their lives, and women should also. Men also have idiosyncrasies and oddities in their lives, and women do as well. But, if you are considering having a long-term relationship with a woman, you want to make sure that at least your oddities pretty much line up with hers. You don’t want to find out later that the women you have fallen in love with is a psycho who makes you afraid to take a shower behind that all too famous shower curtain in the movie “Psycho.”
(Again, I’d like to help you attract more women… so please take 38 seconds and share one of your frustrations in the comments. I’ll answer personally.)
Ask question so you will know who you are falling for, it will save you from disappointment and possible danger later. It’s true what they say, hindsight is 20-20. Ask beforehand, to prevent yourself from wishing you had.
Once you know her answers to these easy questions, you’ll have no problem turning any woman on and getting her into bed… as long as you try the secrets I’ll show you when you click here to watch this powerful free video…
Ignore this advice and be doomed to a life of boring, sexless relationships.