Are you stuck in “The Friend Zone?”
Do the women in your life treat you like “one of the girls?” Or worse, do you have a secret crush on a girl friend of yours… but… she doesn’t seem to like you back?
This is NOT the Friend Zone... here are 9 ways to help you get HERE.
I used to run into this “Friend Zone” problem all the time:
I would bond with women extremely well, because I was a good listener. I would be there for her, while she poured her heart and soul out to me. We seemed to connect on the deepest level there is.
But we never had that “spark.” You know, that sexual connection.
It is this lack of sexual spark which kept me in the friend zone with up to one dozen women at once. It is this lack of sexual spark which keeps you from being with your secret crush, romantically.
And it is this lack of sexual spark we’re going to solve for you, in today’s blog post. With nine different ways to get out of the friend zone. Starting with a common problem…
Do the women in your life treat you like “one of the girls?”
Do your women friends know whether you’re straight or gay? If they’re not 100% sure, you’re stuck in the friend zone.
At the risk of being blunt, you must stop acting like you’re gay, right away. If you continue acting this way around women you’re interested in, you will never get further with these women than you are, right now.
A few tips: don’t use more hair product than the woman you’re interested in. Don’t order a drink with an umbrella at the bar. Don’t chat about fashion, gossip or entertainment.
You need your female friends to see you as a man. This means no more advice on makeup, no more talking about the shade of her hair and no more being a “Metrosexual” man.
It is wonderful to know about a woman’s interests… however… being too interested in these topics yourself can ruin your sexual credibility.
You need to rebuild yourself as a sexual man: This means not always being available, being tactful (but truthful) about the dirt bag she is seeing and talking about women you’re dating. Although you don’t need to share the explicit details with her.
This means taking charge in a subtle way: Planning your nights, picking up the bill and opening doors. Do everything you can to show her you see her as a woman. Not a buddy.
You can even order the wine or food for both of you, if you’re feeling adventurous.
The main idea is this: you want to show a woman you’re interested that you’re interested in her sexually. Not interested in her as a friend.
And the best way to do this is to seduce her, turn her on and bring her home with you. Because she can’t doubt your sexuality once you’ve spent the night making love.
The best way to turn a woman on is also the best way to bring a woman back to your place. It’s called innuendo and sexual leading. I explain a few of my favorite techniques for innuendo and getting sexual with a woman in the following video:
http://3questionsgetthegirl.com/simple-trick-video
You can watch this video for free. Simply click the link above.
Your Friend,
- Vin
