Many guys are at a loss for words when it comes to understanding women, and would love to actually find a man’s guide to the female mind.
The psychology of females is incredibly complex and many dating sites, no matter how broad the information they offer, will never be able to explain all the intricacies of the female brain. But what we can do is give you a massive head start on the competition. There are a few things that really stand out about the female mind and the way it works which will be key to understanding women.
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The factors involved in how to understand the complex structure known as the female mind.
Factor #1: Females are emotional creatures. Ya think?
Every man on planet earth has probably figured at least this much out, but are still at a loss as to why. It is a scientific fact that the way females respond, interpret information, and make decisions is based more on emotions than logic. Men are the ones who think logically, women don’t. Women are almost always controlled by emotions. Once you truly get this, you’ll be ahead of the game in understanding women psychology.
If a female is going to sleep with a guy, it doesn’t matter if it makes sense logically, what matters is how she feels about it emotionally. What’s been found is women will react impulsively on her emotions and then find a way later to rationalize it so that it makes sense to her intellectually.
The problem this creates for you is that when you try to logically explain to a woman why it’s a good idea that they hook up with you, they try to emotionally explain why it makes sense that they don’t. What you need to remember is that it is NEVER a good idea to try and change a woman’s mind, but change the emotions which determine her mood. If you focus on this, you will increase your success ten-fold.
Factor #2: Understand how the female brain works.
Females thrive on validation and attention. To men, it appears that their reason for living is to basically get attention, and it doesn’t matter whether it comes from guys or other women. What you need to be able to do is use this as a way to shape their behavior.
You can use this as a way to reward them when you feel like they did a fantastic job. You can calibrate their behavior by giving them approval and validating their actions. Take note: it’s really important that you don’t overdo this because it can often set a really bad precedence.
Don’t be the guy that overdoes the validation and approval. Don’t continually shower her with compliments and agree with her on everything. Don’t get into the habit of showering women with gifts. Unfortunately, this sort of validation isn’t seen as positive by most women.
What women need is genuine validation when she does something positive. This is how you shape her to want to do that action over and over. Positive reinforcement is a powerful motivator. Appreciate what she does when she does it. This will win you major brownie points!
Likewise, if she doesn’t respond with good behavior, simply take your attention away. This causes a powerful reaction from her, because she’ll want to chase after that positive validation from you. No one likes a negative reaction.
Understanding how the female mind works can be very powerful in terms of why they tick the way they do and what motivates them to act and react in the ways that seem foreign. By being able to look into the female mind, you’ll realize that they don’t come from a different planet, just a different frame of mind.
So, there’s your quick man’s guide to the female mind. The only thing you need to keep in mind is that women react because of emotions. They often don’t think first and then act. They act first and then think. It drives many men crazy. But once you understand why they act the way they do, you can act differently in your behavior towards them, and that, my friend, is the key to success in living with the creatures that we can’t seem to live without.
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