Are you boring her with the same old dates?
Would you like to avoid the break up by spicing it up?
Where you decide to date can have a big impact on you. It’ll help you be more confident, get her in the right mood, and increase attraction. But creating adventurous dates is tricky at first.
Read on for some simple tips to create more exciting dates…
***And when you are finished, please take a few seconds and share one of your most exciting dates (or an idea for one) in the comments below.
Dont be a bore…
Many couples that have been dating find that after awhile things start to get boring. With the combination of busy work schedules and various commitments, there’s less time to spend together. So it’s important to make the little time you have together special. For us guys, it can hard finding time for women. If you’re like most guys searching for self improvement advice, you spend a lot of times trying to become a better man, your life is consumed with interests, hobbies, exercise, etc.
Now, since very often the idea of becoming a more attractive person hasn’t really been drummed into women as much as men, who are more focused on self development; they won’t always have the same exciting things going on in their life. They will become a little time-needy. They may want to constantly be spending time with their guy. This is when you need to come up with romantic dating ideas, which will decrease the neediness in their life.
Step 1 – Aim for quality
There are two strategies that I use to get over this. The first one is that I focus on quality time. That means that with the limited time that I do have to spend with my girlfriend, I make sure that when we are together she’s the only thing that matters in my life. I turn my phone off, I turn my internet off, I turn the TV off, and I make sure that I concentrate one hundred percent of my attention on her.
I find that spending even twenty or thirty minutes with a woman where your focus is one hundred percent on her is so much more powerful than when I used to spend four or five hours with a woman just dicking around and not really being present with her. So that’s step number one. Focus on the quality of the time that you spend together. Creating day date ideas is a great way to do this. Women love it when you plan a day around them.
Step 2 – Introduce and integrate her into your daily activities
The second step is to take the everyday activities that you have, and to find a way to turn them into fun date ideas use some creativity. That’s where coming up with a top ten recipes idea to spending time with women is a really smart approach. The way that you can frame it to your girl is to say, “You know what, I know we don’t get to spend a lot of time together, but I think this is a really good way for us to try new things, keep things exciting, and have a little bit of fun together”.
This can be a great way to start building rapport with one and another again. One great idea is to come up with a list of ten foods that you both love but have never cooked. Maybe it’s the Red Thai Curry, maybe it’s making ice cream, or maybe it’s a particular type of dessert. Each week, and for the next ten weeks, go through the process of one night a week cooking up this new food.
What you’ll find is that the ability to be able to spend time with each other and do something new and exciting will really reinvigorate your relationship. It might even get to a point where you find that you now need to prioritize your time a little bit more so that you can actually spend more time with your girl.
Both of you will benefit by adding adventurous dating ideas to your routine, therefore taking the routine out of the equation. Sit down and start thinking of ways to create quality, which should automatically create closeness. You might find things about each other you never knew, which will make your life more exciting in and out of the bedroom.
Step 3- Grow Closer than Ever By Learning Simple Strategies to Read Her Mind and Deliver Exactly What She Wants
The easiest way for you to grow closer to her is for her to believe that you are giving her everything her heart truly desires.
Wouldn’t it be great if mind reading were real?
Now we can’t tell you how to read everyone’s mind but we can help you quickly identify which “type” she is and how to leverage the power of words with three simple questions guaranteed to get her to want to be closer to you than ever.
Ps. Please take 12 seconds or so and share us one of your best dates or an idea you have for one in the comments. Thanks – Vin