Learn to appreciate your girl, in and out of the bedroom… and you will be graciously rewarded.
Have you ever been at a loss looking for gifts to give the girl in your life? Many guys ask me for advice on this – they want to show a girl that they love her, but don’t know what to give her. Well, guys, the secret’s right in front of you: Give her yourself.
In this post, I’ll show you why satisfying her in the bedroom is worth more than all the gold or diamonds in the world.
***And when you finish reading, please share one your dating questions in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
Two ways of appreciation…
Ultimately, the biggest gift that you can give in the bedroom is by appreciating her. In a sense, you want to have appreciation on two levels:
- Appreciate her as a person. Value her goals, beliefs, and interests.
- Appreciate her as a woman. Enjoy her female form, her physical nature, and appreciate what she does for you as a man. You want to appreciate the feelings that she stirs inside you and the physical reactions that naturally arise when a girl starts to turn you on.
Be grateful for her
There are many gifts to show your appreciation. Here is a beautiful, warm, sensuous woman right next to you – it is a very special treat to have on hand, so the most important gift of all is the gift of gratitude. You can give the gift of gratitude to yourself for being in such a situation, for having created the circumstances for this situation to have arisen.
But you must also be grateful for this woman’s existence, and let her know how grateful you are that she exists and is spending this time with you. Women love to hear this talk, it is very sexy to them. Making her aware of what’s she’s doing for you is probably the greatest gift we can give to a woman in general. By doing this, we get her to acknowledge to herself that she is a sexual creature. Often in modern society, women are sometimes shunned for expressing themselves on a sexual level. They’re sometimes ridiculed and made out to be sluts or made out to be promiscuous.
A guy needs to let his woman know that he not only is comfortable with the fact that she’s a sexual creature, but that it turns him on. It makes him not able to think straight, which helps her delve inside that side of herself, and makes her giddy with delight.
Show her your appreciation the HARD way…
One of the things that I love doing with women is to become aroused, grab her hand, put it on my hard cock and say, “Look at what you’re doing to me. I’m so excited by being here with you. Look at what’s happening.” By doing that, it’s like a flip switches inside her head. There’s something about an erect penis that just drives women crazy.
When a guy lets his woman know that he’s horny, it validates her and makes her feel attractive and sexual. This will not only increase her sexual state, but when a guy lets his woman know that he’s horny because of her and because he’s thinking about her, she’s going to get to that point almost instantly. It’s going to be like an explosion goes on inside her body.
Words of appreciation go a long way in any relationship, and acts of appreciation help further it along as well. Whether it’s in or out of the bedroom is unimportant. If you start with acts of kindness, compassion, sincerity, and genuineness out of the bedroom, what happens in the bedroom will blow your mind. Appreciate her in the bedroom, but out of it as well.
***Remember: please take 12 seconds or so and ask a question in the comments about women. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
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One of the easiest ways to show her your gratitude and appreciation is coming to understand who she is as a woman, what she thinks about, and how she thinks. If you are trying to do this on your own, The path can be long and hard. What’s more, is that you may think that you already know exactly what it takes. This kind of thinking is likely premature and leaves her wanting more. If you are ready to give her the complete package, play her like a harmonica, and blow her mind every time, you won’t want to miss this: