Can you really overcome approach anxiety with just a few simple steps?
You are not alone in being scared to approach women. This is the first big challenge almost all of my clients face.
Read on to learn how to start beating it today…
***And when you finish reading, please share one your Facebook frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
This is not medical or psychological advice.
In many places anxiety is treated as a medical condition, which it rightly should be. There are a lot of people that avoid getting professional help and try and “go it alone” and that never works. I’ve had a mountain of success with students where nothing else worked for them by sending them to a specialist clinic to get treated. Look at a list of anxiety treatment centers here. So many guys that never get results with women are suffering from anxiety. The ones that admit it, and get something done about it are the ones that tend to turn things around.
The key is in your mind
Changing your mindset is the key to overcoming your approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is usually caused by the belief that approaching women is difficult. This mindset causes stress, triggers a feeling of anxiousness, creates subconscious fear, and unnecessary worrying. Consider what it would be like if you believed that approaching women were easy. How would this belief change how you approached women? What would you do differently?
Dating advice often fails to help men, because it doesn’t address the root cause of ‘approach anxiety.’ The wrong mindset is usually the way down there at the root of this issue. For example, are you convinced that approaching women is so difficult that you can’t wrap your mind around it? If so, you are your own worst enemy and you need to change your mindset.
Ask yourself these 3 questions:
- Are you hesitant in believing that talking to women can be easy? If yes, why do you feel that way?
- If you believed that talking to women was easy, how would this change your techniques for approaching them?
- What do you have to lose from approaching a woman? What is the worst that can happen?
The last question is the most important one. So she turns away, so what right? She isn’t going to punch you; only your pride will be hurt. A wounded pride will quickly heal. The most negative thing that can happen is that you feel embarrassed, but at least by taking action you have a chance of getting the woman.
What do you have to lose?
The main thing here is that you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. Embrace all of your successes and failures, because these experiences are how you learn and get better. Experiences are what make you who you are. Change how you perceive failure and ‘approach anxiety’. Change a negative into a positive. If nothing else, you will feel better, positive people usually do.
From now on, when you see a woman that you want to meet, tell yourself that meeting her will be easy and effortless. Repeat this thought over and over again. The more you believe in yourself, the easier it will be to approach women. You will become more comfortable with approaching women and will get more results. Changing your mindset is absolutely necessary for you to overcome approach anxiety.
***Remember: please take 12 seconds or so and ask a question about Facebook or share a frustration in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
Talking to women should be simple as long as you know what you’re doing!
You just need to reprogram your body and mind to be confident and that’s even easier! You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can get her number, get a date, and even turn her on with the never before revealed secrets I uncover. Beware: Use these powerful mind tricks to get her begging for you before this video is removed. (We aren’t even sure sharing this is still legal!)