We receive a lot of letters from guys who are ready to make a change, but are clueless on how to go about it.
If you are serious and ready to make a change, then read on. But if you are comfortable with your situation, then don’t bother, because you won’t take any of the advice given anyway.
What do you find challenging about changing your life for the better? Please comment in the box below.
Below is a sample of the many letters we receive from guys who aren’t having success with women, and want to know how to change their life around.
I’m not having any success with women. To be honest, my life is pretty boring, and I was hoping that working on meeting women would make it a little bit more exciting. I don’t really have that much money, so I can’t necessarily go out there and buy a new wardrobe. I’m still living with my parents. What can I do to get the success I’m looking for? I really don’t want to have to make too big of a change.
Ash from Toronto
You obviously don’t sound very comfortable with making a change. It sounds like you are content with the way you are living. You probably get your parents to cook for you and wash your laundry. Sorry dude, but you lack responsibility, and without that, you won’t ever move forward with a job, a social life, or with women.
For me, whenever I get comfortable, I try to shake things up a bit. I hate normalcy in my life, so it just requires a different mindset. If you’re happy being uncomfortable, go for it. You probably have no desire to change your life for the better.
So it’s time to make a change? Then get serious about it!
If you’re really serious and ready to change your life around, then you’ll do everything in your power to change your situation. For one thing, get the hell out from under your parent’s roof. Use this time to go traveling and find yourself. If you haven’t much money, then hitchhike somewhere or go backpacking. Get a job, so that you do have some money. Hit a friend for a ride. Find ways to make life more interesting.
Do whatever it takes if you really want to make a change.
Having a productive meaningful life will increase your success with women.
If you’re not having success with women; for one thing it’s not going to happen overnight. So you’ve read a few books or you’ve read up on my blog or written me a letter. This is serious stuff, you’re going to have to make massive changes. You’re going to have to decide, right now, if you really want to be successful at changing your life. If not, then don’t even bother trying to fool yourself that you’ll have any positive results happen.
Staying stagnant will keep you stagnant.
Just continue doing what you’re doing, living your safe, happy, and comfortable life, and don’t try to pretend to yourself or anyone else that you want to change your life. If you did want to make a change, then you would do everything in your power to change your situation.
Until you’re willing to do that, you’re going to keep getting the same results. Make sure you take some action now, and start with some serious soul-searching. If you really want to do it, then get back to us and we’ll begin writing a plan for you. But seriously dude, start with moving out of your parents house! Women really aren’t attracted to mama’s boys who still live at home.
Making changes in your life is not dependent on anyone but yourself. You have to be sincere in your desire, and perform the actions that will cause the change to happen.
While you’re at it, check out our premier product, Vin DiCarlo’s Pandora’s Box. You’ll find advice on a wide range of topics, and it’s a great place to start if you are sincere on making a change for success.