Success with women comes from within. If you are not having much luck in the romance department, then steps must be taken to improve your situation.
There are some key factors that a you need to be aware of before you go out trying to attract women? How does your image reflect your interior? How are you presenting yourself? And are you presenting the best possible you that you can?
What have you done to become more successful in attracting women. Please leave your comments in the box below, I’m sure that there are guys out there that would love to hear your thoughts.
I think a good starting point for guys who are new to this site is to put a system in place, almost like a check sheet that you can flick through before you go out at night. I am going to offer five tips to attract women that you should have in place on your “check sheet”. Check off each and every one of these before you leave for the night, and then, GAME ON!
Tip number one: Make sure that you are well groomed and clean. First impressions are most important.
Make sure you have your best “cologne” on, because scent is one of the first things that women notice. Not too strong, you don’t want to be smelled from across the room. That’s cheesy and gross. Make sure that all of your facial hair and facial styling is taken care of. Presenting the best package you have includes basic grooming, and last but certainly non least, make sure that your breath is fresh and that your body and hair look great.
Tip number two: Decide what you’re going to wear.
What you wear is of up-most importance. It’s critical when guys are buying clothes that they actually spend the money to invest in really good brands and high quality clothes. Particularity when we’re talking about jeans, shoes, and in colder cities, jackets.
These are the three items that you want to spend a little bit more money on. It’s better to have one, really expensive, high quality pair of shoes than three average pairs. Spending that extra bit of money is advantageous to your appearance. The great thing about guys is we can almost get away with wearing the same outfit every night we go out. Just changing up the jacket changes the whole appearance.
Women, on the other hand, face public shame if they’re seen wearing the same outfit two two weeks in a row. For a girl that’s social suicide. Just be clear about what you want to be wearing on a particular night. If you are serious about improving your chances with women, then improve the quality of your clothes.You should know by now that women themselves are really into attire, and they notice how men dress.
Being the best you can be will increase your confidence, and confidence attracts women. Women are turned on by men who exude confidence. BE THAT CONFIDENT GUY!
Tip number three: Get yourself in the mood.
Put on some music that you love to listen to, watch a movie that inspires you, or have a few drinks. You attract women by your state of mind. If you’re in a funky state and not feeling sexy or fun, then who is going to want to hang out with you?
If you can put yourself in a fun state and go out with a major focus on enjoying your night, rather than putting your entire energy into picking up women, you will significantly boost your results.
Tip number four: Make sure your logistics are sorted out before you leave for the night.
Is your bedroom clean? Do you have condoms by your bed? Do you have some chillout music set to go on your IPod, ready for when you bring a woman back? Do you have some drinks back at your place that will give you an excuse to extract a girl from the club?
If you don’t take care of this particular step you’re mentally sabotaging youself, because even if you do score with a woman, you won’t know where to take her. Talk about major bummer!
Tip number five: Be clear on what your goal is for the night.
We’ve already spoken about holding the goal of having fun. This should be a given for any night that you go out. In fact, it should probably be your primary focus. But on top of this you also want to have a specific dating related goal. What exactly is your game plan for the night?
Do you want to approach the most attractive girl in the club? Do you want to work on kino escalation, perhaps getting to level three on the DiCarlo’s Escalation Ladder? Do you want to push the interactions and work on becoming more persistent? Having a few goals gives you the ability to assess your performance at the end of night, and will give you a clear direction to move in. It gives you a purpose and a plan.
If you are having trouble attracting women, then these tips, assuming you take them seriously, will improve your interactions and make you that guy that all the women want to be around. If you’re ready to take your game to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL, watch my FREE video while it’s still online. After you learn a few simple secrets, you’ll always be able to hook up with beautiful women…