Learning how to get a girl to like you is something I would encourage you to get out of your head, as I know there are better ways of finding a woman than following a routine. Want to know how? Then keep reading!
I’m going to lift the lid on a common belief and throw all you know about picking up women right out the window. Yes, guys, it is time to be bold and give you a good healthy dose of useful advice that is going to take your luck and ability with women to the next level. I’ll let you know how to find a date whenever you want a date!
Ignore people who say you can attract anyone!
One of the biggest flaws in many dating advice and products out there is this massive focus on building attraction with women. How to make a girl attracted to you? How to flip her attraction switches? ‘Ten signs of attraction’ and other similar articles are complete garbage.
The misleading theory behind all of this is that the more attraction you have, the more likely you would be to get a date and sleep with her. However, the fact is that girls don’t have to be that attracted to you to talk to you, spend time with you, date or even sleep with you. The guy who scores is not the one who has a girl super attracted to him in the club. The guy who scores is the one who goes home with her at the end of the night. It is as simple as that.
How do you know if it’s possible?
Sometimes, you can tell for sure if she’s attracted or not. These could be vague signals. Maybe she’s shy. Maybe she’s just socially awkward. So, you should always stick to the game plan, and the game plan is to isolate and escalate. I like to just assume that every girl is attracted to me. I work hard on myself. I go out there and I dress quite well and I know I am an intelligent guy, and you probably are too.
So why not just assume that your attraction is already there? Once you assume that she’s already attracted to you, the next part is really easy. All you have to do is isolate her and escalate. Isolating her can mean taking her away from her friends, moving her to a different spot in the venue or just finding any excuse to take her to a spot where it is just you guys. That way, it is just both of you together with no one else around.
The important part of isolating is leading. One I like to do is pretty much maybe 10 minutes into an interaction. I like to find an excuse to grab her hand and take her somewhere else.
Occasionally, I will leave and ask her friends for permission to take her away from them just for a little while. Once you have her isolated, the next thing is to escalate, and escalating is really easy. It is just being sexual with her, touching her, getting a little closer to her and really leaving nothing to the imagination.
If you like her and you want to take things a little further than just plain old conversation, show her that. Display that to her. Get a little physical with her. The last thing is you don’t want to die wondering, so you need to be there pushing the boundaries a little bit and taking things as far as possible.
So, guys, remember – it is as easy as those two simple steps: isolate and escalate. Assume attraction. Isolate the girl and then escalate on her. That’s really it. If you can do this effectively, you’ll have no issues getting girls to sleep with you and having enough sexual partners in your life.