Satisfying a woman, making her feel comfortable and content, being competent in the bedroom and in other aspects of your relationship is all great; but if you want to really be memorable, irreplaceable, you have to learn to drive a woman wild, make her want you more than she’s ever wanted anyone or anything else, and make her forget every other guy out there besides you.
If you want to drive a woman wild, you must make sure you take care of her in every aspect of her life, and be a fantastic, dependable boyfriend or husband. Make her feel loved and appreciated, make her feel special, etc; in short, don’t do anything that would detract from her good feelings about you, or draw any negative associations with you in her head. However, once you have ensured that she is not distracted by other things, the key to knowing how to drive a woman wild starts in the bedroom.
The first thing you must do to drive a woman wild in the bedroom is be really, really good – at everything. Be a good kisser, both during moments of gentle intimacy and those of more passionate lust, be good at reading a woman’s body (some like certain parts to be kissed or touched – such as the neck, ears, nipples, etc – more than others), and be patient during foreplay. Of course, also, be great down there with your hands and your tongue, know how and when to tease her and when to give her what she wants, etc. Finally, make sure to have good stamina (train yourself through practice, through figuring out what positions allow you to last longer, how long you can go very hard before you have to stop and take a break to avoiding finishing early, etc) in bed, make sure to have a mastery of different positions, and make sure to have the strength necessary to give her what she wants and needs.
What has just been described is necessary, but it is not enough on its own. If you really want to drive a woman wild, you have to personalize the sex. This means a few different things. First of all, when you are facing her, make eye contact. Eye contact during sex is incredibly effective at driving the passion and making her go wild with lust and/or love for you. Look at her in any position in which you can, and whenever you withdraw from kissing her. The second thing to keep in mind are the things you say to her. Dirty talk is not necessary (though mastery of it can be extremely effective), but some communication certainly is.
Make sure to talk to her some, tell her how beautiful, sexy, and great she is, tell her what you really like and ask her what does it for her (and do it!). Call her by her name. Make her feel every bit as desired as she desires you. Finally, make sure you know what she likes. All women are different, and all women like different things in and out of the bedroom. Some like it rougher than others, some like different positions, some like dirty talk more or less, some like to take control and others prefer you to, etc. Observe her, talk to her and question her, and ask her what she likes and wants, etc. The secret to knowing how to drive a woman wild is to know everything you can about her, and what makes her go wild.