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Anyone (even YOU) can be a master conversationalist!

Do you want to be more confident when approaching people? Would you like to be able to approach a total stranger and strike up a conversation with ease? If you saw a cute girl, would you like to win her over with your charisma and charm?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, then this is the article is for you! I am going to share several step-by-step strategies with you that I have used to help thousands of men become extremely confident and capable of talking to complete strangers.

When you master the art of talking to random people, your life will change forever! You will never experience a dull moment again since there will always be someone new to meet. Meeting women will be a breeze and your career will take off as you collaborate more effectively with your colleagues at work.

Who knows how a random conversation may turn out …

Don’t worry if you feel a little anxious!

Approaching a random stranger and striking up a conversation can seem very intimidating to a lot of people. To be honest, this is a completely natural response. You see, our brains are pretty remarkable tools, but they don’t always have our best interests at heart.

Back in the prehistoric days, fear was essential for survival, and our brain was designed to protect us from deadly predators. Even though these dangers no longer exist in modern society, the original hardwiring on our brains is still there. This is why you feel anxious when you prepare to walk up to a stranger and start a conversation. It also explains why you tense up when you see a cute girl across the room and think about introducing yourself.

Now, I’ve got some good news for you and some bad news. Unfortunately, this built-in fear and anxiety can never completely go away. However, the good news is that you can learn to manage it and control how you respond to it.

You don’t have to let fear hold you back!

If you practice the tips that I share with you, then you will be able to push past your comfort zone regardless of the tension that you may experience. In fact, by mastering these techniques you can actually use your anxiety to your advantage and let it drive you to move forward and take action.


Tip #1: Warm up!

What would happen to an elite athlete if they competed without doing a proper warm up first? Clearly they would not perform to their full potential. They might even suffer an injury that would prevent them from performing at peak level in the future. These exact same principles apply to meeting strangers and talking to random people.

If you try to go from 0 to 100, then you are not going to perform to your full potential!

The solution should be obvious: complete a social warm up beforehand. The easiest way to do this is by simply making eye contact with five people. Then make eye contact and smile at five other people. Finally, make eye contact, smile, and greet five more people.

Once you have finished your social warm, you will immediately feel more confident about going up to someone and starting a conversation. In fact, there is a good chance that you may end up chatting with some of the people who you greeted during your warm up!


Tip #2: Give yourself permission to fail.

Remember how our brains are hardwired to protect us? Well, we may not have to dodge dinosaurs and other prehistoric predators these days, but we still face the risk of making a mistake and embarrassing ourselves. That’s why our brains flood us with anxiety when we worry about something going wrong.

One of the reasons why so many men struggle to meet women, or talk to people in general, is because they feel that they need to be perfect for that particular moment. Unsurprisingly, the resulting fear of failure either holds them back or sabotages their best efforts.

The solution is to treat your opener as just that: an opportunity to break the ice.

When you approach someone, your goal isn’t to win them over. Your goal is simply to start a conversation. So don’t worry how the rest of your interaction turns out. Give yourself permission to be less than perfect on your first approach. In fact, give yourself permission to blow it completely. Obviously you shouldn’t deliberately make a bad impression, but if it happens, then so be it.

Don’t take yourself or your socializing too seriously. After all, all you are really doing is giving people the opportunity to meet you.


Tip #3: Stay true to your passions.

One of the mistakes that people make when they start a conversation with a stranger is they become too focused on the other person. They spend all of their time asking questions to find out more about the person they are chatting with.

Asking questions is fine, but after a while it can actually put a lot of pressure on people.

What you need to do is balance your questions with some statements about yourself. When you talk about yourself, focus on the things that you are passionate about in life. As you develop your communication skills and become more confident about talking to random people, you can lead the direction of the conversation towards topics that you are passionate about. There are several reasons why you want to do this:

  • You will feel much more comfortable with topics that you are passionate about.
  • Your passion will resonate with other people and put them at ease.
  • Your interactions with people will naturally move to a deeper, more personal level.

As a result of these benefits, you will find it much easier to make friends, meet women, get dates, and enjoy more social confidence.


 

These tips should give you a head start at starting conversations and talking to random people. However, if you want to take your communication skills to the next level and master the art of conversation, then make sure that you check out the rest of our articles – they are crammed with advice for complete novices as well as more advanced techniques.

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A bartender works a rather complex and fast paced job in order to make all the drinks for the bar guests. However, there is always a “Girls Night Out” at most bars, and they usually invite attractive women that only use their money on looking good. With the orders coming in fast, you only get a few sentences to say what you want before moving on to the next guest. So, here are 10 ways bartenders can drop hints to girls on the other side of the bar.

1. The Wink – When you’re handing a really attractive woman a drink, the number one way you can drop a hint is to drop a wink at her when ending the conversation to go to another guest. This means that you are interested, but you can’t say it on the spot. Women will always translate it to this, as women who are attractive are also vain.

2. The Tease – This only works while they are sober, but it works really well at getting them to smile, provided they are not in a bad mood. When you go to hand them their first or second drink, you play a very short game of “Can you get it?” This introduces a very playful mood that they will always have a perked up interest for you, and this is the most commonly used hint out of the 10 ways bartenders can drop hints to girls on the other side of the bar.

3. Messing with the Drunk – This can be potentially volatile, but it works almost instantly to get a girl to give you her number. The most commonly used one is taking their drink away when they are not looking. You will only want to do this a maximum of two times, because afterwards they tend to get irritated.

4. Number on a Napkin – This hardly hits, but occasionally it does work, as women do get drunk. The trick to getting it to work is to write a very sweet poem to go along with it that plays on her vanity.

5. A Flower – If a really attractive regular keeps coming in, then you can use this one. On her second or third drink, or after she’s tipsy, place a rose on the table along with her drink. Because her inhibitions are lowered, it is rare that she asks why it was done, but instead sees it as extremely sweet.

6. Filler up Depression – If a really attractive woman is acting lonely and depressed, this one will usually work. Depressed women will not come while it is crowded, but also will not come when there are barely any customers. You are the best friend while filling her glass until you can coax her into having fun. If you have some extra cash then this trick will work on the dime almost every time. When she is in a better mood, but she doesn’t have enough cash to pay the bill, offer to pay it in exchange with her phone number.

7. One Free Drink – Because you’re the bartender and the amount of liquor sold is usually an estimate, you have a small leeway. If a woman seems she is flirting with you, you can always try giving her a free drink along with a compliment. This is the second most used of the 10 ways bartenders can drop hints to girls on the other side of the bar, but because it’s the bartender, it usually works.

8. Wavy Smile – In order for this to work, you have to know the woman you’re using it on. Otherwise, you’ll just be that weird guy who smiles differently. If you’ve known them for a while, this type of smile opens the door to different possibilities if she’s already shown an interest into you.

9. The Buddy Trick – Have a friend stick around the girls you want and gather info on the women. This will tell you what they like, what they are like, and what they look for in a guy. Your friend will be able to see what they turn down, and what they don’t. Then say something to the women you know they will like and give credit to your buddy. This is the sneakiest way out of the 10 ways bartenders can drop hints to girls on the other side of the bar, but it works like a charm every time.

10. The Book – This is a hint that only works with hot nerdy girls. They may be lawyers, scientists, or detectives, but there are many jobs that require intelligent women. Giving them a favorite book of someone you know they’ll like is something that will hit the hint right off the bat. Out of all the 10 ways bartenders can drop hints to girls, this one works the fastest.

 

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The show “Mad Men” is about a few things. One of them is how the Mad Men attract girls. True enough, it still works in this day and age. Women are turned on by their qualities because women are really only interested in one thing: fun.

That means one heck of a joy ride, and for men like the Mad Men, that is just too easy. This fun can be categorized into three terms that we will break down so you can attract girls like the Mad Men attract girls.


1. Confidence is the number one unique item in the Mad Men repertoire. Women love confidence in a male above all else because it means they are proud of who they are. On a survivalist scale, a woman would prefer a man who is overconfident that he can kill the beasts in a forest rather than the person with a shaky gun. This is something that is designed into the woman’s brain, so if you have it, it is an instant attraction.

How does it translate into fun?

Confidence in men leads to wild parties, adventures, interesting discoveries, and a wild sex life. Sex is one of the most important things to a woman, which is why they guard it so well. The same can be said about a man’s family or money. Do you want a family that wakes up depressed every morning or to fear losing all of your money because of a mistake? Usually the answer is no, so why would women settle for a man that does not do anything interesting just because he could.


2. Charisma is the second thing that Mad Men use to attract girls. Charisma only comes from a person who has been confident in themselves for a long time. In a survival situation, charisma is actually used for camouflage and making sure the attacks hit with precision while barely using any strength. This would mean that the person could get more than the normal amount of food, and a woman’s greed knows no bounds. You might be asking yourself, “But that’s stealth or weapons training, why did you say it’s charisma?” Weapons training means nothing if you do not have confidence. The ability to use that weapons training while commanding excellent confidence is charisma.

How it translates to fun?

Charisma leads to laughter, comfort ability, and adding more friends to a party. To women, charisma is needed along with the confidence to go out and have a great time with friends or complete strangers. Without charisma, everything would seem like an awkward high stakes Texas hold ‘em match that never ends and only has two people.


3. Big dreams are like a sucker for women because, as we said before, a woman’s greed knows no bounds. The bigger the dream, the more the woman will be into you, but it has to be a realistic and not creepy dream. In survival, a big dream actually means being able to live in a nicer place. To most, this does not make sense, but when you are in survival mode, all you can think about is a way to make the home life better. This causes chain events that will lead to a better place of living.

How it translates to fun?

The bigger the dream, the higher the roller coaster. That means more experiences to reach that goal. Women want to have the greatest they can out of life, and if a man’s dream is so small, like getting a pay raise, they feel like they are being cheated out of life. If a man has a huge dream then it will take a lot of work and various experiences just to get to that goal. The more the future life of the man seems interesting, the more a woman will fall for him. Think of it like a meal – do you drool over a crumb, or over a feast?


 

Got a question about attracting a girl? Leave a comment below and I’ll personally respond to you. Trying to get lucky? Check out some of my other articles for tips that will point you in the right direction.

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With girls and guys, attraction at its core is actually extremely easy to concept. The physical features of both men and women stimulate something mentally inside the brain that causes attraction.

While it’s simply stated, it is not always easy to just take it as it is. A lot of what is misconstrued is done so through psychological advancement in advertisement. They convince you that you need something in order to attract women, and without it you supposedly don’t have a chance.

The truth is that women look at men for three different things: health, confidence, and dreams.

Health

The majority of the attraction at its core for women comes from health. Just like men, they are told something from commercials that if a man doesn’t have it, then they are not attractive. Health usually means big muscles, lean bodies, and great in bed. These women are easily identifiable as they are usually also deep in debt, have the latest fashion, and too many shoes to count. These women are also not even worth going after for a solid relationship, simply because they’re easily malleable, which makes them unreliable. Guys are naturally attracted to these women for brief periods of time, but because they are only skin deep, they also end up having relationships with more than one of them.

To attract women or men in terms of health is to simply be active. Go on a walk at night, go to the grocery store and walk around, or go to the gym. It doesn’t matter so long as they can visibly tell that you’re not someone who is cooped up in the house all the time. Women don’t want that type of man because that type of man is boring. Men don’t want that type of woman because men are used to being outside for the better part of their life.

Confidence

The actual attraction levels of men and women are the levels of confidence they have. You can compare confidence to the sturdiness of a pillar. If a pillar isn’t strong enough then it will buckle and whatever it’s carrying will fall with it. If confidence isn’t strong enough then it will prevent you from living life to its fullest and having fun. The confidence level in a relationship between a man and a woman is the amount of attraction at its core. If a woman won’t play a game because they aren’t confident they will win, then a man will begin to lose interest. If a man doesn’t want to dance because they don’t have enough confidence that they won’t be laughed off of the floor, then the woman will lose interest in the man.

Dreams

The number one thing for women, more than men, is the level of dreams a person has. For a woman, a dream is the level of excitement that the man they’re interested in will have in their life. For instance a man with the dream of being the greatest singer of all time potentially means there will be a lot of excitement, the living style of their relationship will go up, and the amount of interesting people they meet along the way will increase. But a man who is only interested at keeping his life the way it is at all costs will go nowhere, maybe meet one or two interesting people in their life, and won’t attend a lot of parties or have much fun of any kind.

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The body gives away everyone’s secret emotions, so it’s important to know how a woman’s body works so you can determine the body language that tells you she likes you. With a woman, you don’t ever want to rely on the mouth, as the mouth is something they have been using for years. This is the device with which they wage war games with other women and have used to deceive hundreds like you before. No, instead you want to focus on the hands, eyes, and chest. These are things she can’t control. Even older women find it rather difficult to control their own body language.

Hands

The hands have a specific way of acting, as they are the main tools for protecting oneself from danger. For example, you raise your hands over your head when you’re in danger because you would rather take an injury to the hands or arms than the head or face. Here is the body language that tells you she likes you simply by being near her.

  • Open If her hands are open palmed, then she is comfortable. If her arms are somewhat open, then she is open for other things. If her hands seem like they are leaning towards you, she wants the interest to go further. If her hand is touching you, she has already made up her mind that she is attracted to you.
  • Closed If the palms are clutched, then something is irritating her. If her hands are together, then she wants to be left alone. If her arms are closed inwards, she’s not comfortable being there. If she crossed her arms, you should stop talking and go away.

Eyes

The eyes are the windows to the soul for a reason. Increased interest actually widens the pupils while decreased interest makes the pupils smaller. If her eyes move from you and around the room then she’s not interested in you and she is bored, looking for something else. The body language that tells you she likes you is when her eyes seem like they are trained to your body. They should have a hard time looking away even once. If she looks away then her eyes dart back to you, that means she’s become very interested in you and has started to scheme the rest of the night with you.

Chest

Believe it or not, the chest is like a staring contest. If you turn your chest to face her full front then you have just lost her interest entirely. The number one way to keep her interest going is to have her chest point towards yours while your chest is still pointed away. This makes them feel like you aren’t giving them the vanity service that they deserve, and it actually forces them to feel compelled to you. Once you’ve gotten under their skin they’ll have a hard time getting you out of their thoughts.

 

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They talk with ease, and they are generally nice, but that’s not how gentlemen date women easily. There are specific features of a gentlemen that make them very attractive over other men. They have access to women of all ages, and it’s difficult to grasp how they manage to attract them. The sad thing is that the techniques are very simplistic and deal with basic psychology. A woman will look at the facial features of a man before they look at anything else, before they even look up and down. A gentlemen perfects his facial features to the point where the rest of his body doesn’t even matter.

The Jawline

The jawline is the first indication of the difference between a gentlemen and a regular man. It’s not strong or sturdy, but it faces itself in a way that specifically makes it seem like it’s proud. The jawline is always pointed upward to the point where a gentlemen is looking down at the person they’re with, but not by much. For women this causes a reaction that’s baffling to most men because the gentlemen is turning them on by making the women feel like they’re not in charge. Most women don’t like to be in charge, so how gentlemen date women easily is not really about whether they’re attractive or not, but that they’re in control.

The Twinkle

The twinkle is a small glint in the eye that brings about a feeling of intriguing mystery. This twinkle is something that only the master gentlemen can do because of how difficult it is to pull off at the right moment. The corner of the eye is constantly in a teary state because it has to moisten the eye. In order to reflect the light off of this part and have it shine towards women for a moment requires a perfectly adapted crooked-head smile. Doing both at the right time is extremely difficult because you run the risk of it going wrong and simply looking like a weirdo.

Chest with Confidence

Again with the sense of pride, the chest is pointed upward which gives off the sense of, “I’m better than everyone around me.” Confidence in yourself is the key to attracting women, because without confidence you miss out on most things in life and in the bed. Women are always judging men based on worth and not value. Men with muscles are attractive on paper, but if that man is compensating his confidence with muscles as reassurance, women will try to stay away from him.

 

A good example is being a swimmer, which requires you to stay slim, but muscular. Many swimmers focus on short goals and are only confident when someone tells them they’re doing a good job. Their main goal is to get to the other side faster than their opponents do, and if they can’t do that, they lose confidence in themselves. Swimmers are known to be shy, reclusive and lonely because they have a sport that isn’t something they can easily brag about.

However, a fighter is concentrated on becoming the best in their division. Even if they’re not the best, they can still brag about the last fight they won. They can even brag about how hard it was for the other man to win. Fighters are known to be outgoing, crowd hoggers, and very friendly with women. The only difference is that they are confident in themselves. Most of them naturally carry the traits of a gentlemen because it’s part of being a fighter. This is how gentlemen date women easily, they show their confidence in their body.

So are you a gentlemen? Leave a comment below.

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Well, is it all about size for women? The answer is hard to believe, but no, size is the last thing that women concern themselves with when going through the dating process. There are only four things that women check for on dates for first, second, and even third base, which is something most guys don’t even think about. We’ll give you a list of what you need to know to attract the women that you want and where the attraction actually stems from.

Confidence

The number one reason why the question, “Is it all about size for women?” is almost laughable is because what really matters is confidence. Without confidence, a man won’t even be able to speak to women. Confidence stems from the need to survive when animals or their family are being attacked. This simple attraction is drilled into a woman’s thinking that if a man is confident then he and his family have a much better chance at survival.

Character

Character is your personality and you’re inability to mimic other people just so they will like you. A woman does not want a man to be obedient because it shows a lack in the man’s ability to think for himself. This is the answer to why a lot of women like jerks even though they may get emotionally or physically messed up. Those jerks put off an air of doing whatever they want and being their own person.

Adaptability

Adaptability means confidence under pressure and the ability to handle every situation. A good example of this is a horror movie. If both a man and a woman are screaming, then they don’t stand a chance. If the man is able to adapt instead of scream and run, then they might be able to get out of the situation. In terms of survival this is the same principle for fierce animals instead of a murderer.

Dreams

Dreams are a huge deal for women because they essentially tell the woman where you want to go in life. If a man has a small dream then they won’t be going very far, and this actually tells a woman when the relationship will end. To a woman, it is never okay to surpass their man in terms of dreams because to them it means they’re settling. In terms of survival, man would have never created farming if he didn’t have any dreams and we certainly wouldn’t have any phones.

 

If you haven’t noticed, everything connects back to the ability to survive. This was literally born into women, it still exists to this day, and the men who have women hanging off their arms know this. When a lonely man tries to ask the men who have women lying on their arms how he does it, it usually ends up in the same answer: “I really don’t know, I guess I was just born with it.”

This is because, essentially, their traits from their fathers were born into them. Before easy divorce became popular, it was almost unheard of for a man to be without a woman unless they didn’t have any money to his name. The reason being is that the father was always there to instill into him what was passed on from his father, so they naturally attracted women and they never asked, “Is it all about size for women?”

So is it all about size for women? No, it’s all about whether the man has the qualities to survive in any given situation.

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Scoring 3rd base on your first date requires a lot of prep work in the beginning, and it’s very tricky to pull off. Getting a girl to follow you home is going to mean a couple of things. You’re going to need a lot of time, you’re going to need to learn her body language fast, you’re going to need a lot of cash, and you need to be yourself. Doing this is, again, very tricky and usually works better on women you’ve already gained their trust with, but odds are you’re reading this because you’re on a first date with a woman from the internet.

A Lot of Time

You’re going to want to start this date as early as you can, provided it goes well. The longer you get to know her, the more she will trust you. Trust is key to scoring 3rd base on your first date. After all, women already know that going to an unknown place with someone you don’t trust is extremely risky, so the first thing you have to do is get her to trust you, and that’s going to take a lot of time.

Learn Fast

When you first meet, you’ll need to mentally jot down everything she’s willing to give you. Pick up some psychology books on women and learn their body language. This is key to getting into her “inner shell” and will only work to your advantage. Once you’ve learned her body, it’s only a matter of time before you get her to fully trust you.

Cash

The number one way to get into a woman’s mind is to get her to start having fun. If she has an online profile, this will work to your advantage. Most women online have a well-balanced life, and they finally want someone to be part of it, so it’s important not to be broke. Going to movies, gaming areas, or even the carnival will shred through money like a cheese grater. Movie tickets are somewhere around 10 dollars a ticket and the food is usually 15 dollars or higher.

Be Yourself

Everyone knows this advice. It’s the advice you actually get from the television shows. Does anyone take this advice to heart? No, and in fact they build a wall of lies most of the time or get too nervous to act themselves. Should they take the advice to heart? Absolutely, because being yourself is crucial to showing confidence, which begets trust.

You might be asking, well, how do I be myself when I’m too nervous? It’s simple, look at the situation you’re in and ask yourself if you’re nervous because of trying something new, or rejection. If it’s something new, then ask yourself what you do when you go on a new ride, play a new game, or go to a new concert. If it’s because of rejection, though, realize that there are over 7 billion people on the planet, and that she is only one of them. This will reduce your fear greatly, and odds are you won’t be nervous anymore.

 

Scoring 3rd base on the first date is extremely simple and only becomes hard if you can’t seem to earn her trust. Without her trust there’s simply no chance of even getting to 3rd base. So get out there and seal the deal.

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In order to understand the basics of women, you have to break them down into what bothers them. What you should not say to a girl on a first date is usually something to do with emotions that aren’t warm, friendly, or a turn on. So, what you should not say to a girl on a first date are critiques, anything depressing, anything about marriage, and definitely not past girlfriends.

Critiques are the Worst
Critiques are definitely something you should not say to a girl on a first date, as they usually make the person who is receiving them angry, depressed, or even lonely. The issue lies in the fact that something about them is wrong, and someone else just saw it. For the most part, women generally try to make themselves as perfect as possible, so something being wrong tells them that they failed.

Depression Depresses
No one likes being depressed or being around a person who is depressed, which is why it’s proper etiquette to be fun and enjoyable around girls. There are some girls that don’t mind talking about a depressed memory or thought, but it doesn’t mean it’s okay, and it’s definitely what you should not say to a girl on a first date. You’re trying to have fun and be enjoyable, and being depressed makes that impossible. Also, women do not like men who are depressed when they first meet them because they are there to meet you and have fun. They take this and reflect on what it might be like in the long run.

Marriage is a No-No
Marriage is a topic that only women should be allowed to talk about because even when men are talking about it amongst themselves, they still get into trouble. What you should not say to a girl on a first date is that you would like to marry her, you can see yourself getting married to her (or worse, some unknown woman), or that you could never marry again. The first two would make her think that you’re potentially psychotic and that you are pushing for something she’s just not ready for. The last one makes her think you’re not ready for any type of commitment and that it seems like a possibility of a one-night stand with missed calls.

Past Should Stay in the Past
One of the worst things that you could say is something that includes a past girlfriend. The issue with a past girlfriend is not the mentioning of her name, but comparing her to the woman you’re on a date with. What you should not do on a first date is use the past girlfriend to measure the girl to a specific standard.

 

You should definitely be able to get through the first date now, have a good time, and confidently land a second date, so have fun. The first date only lats a few hours, but the fun can go on for years if you know what to say.

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To get the girl you want, there are only a few things that you have to do and have to keep in mind. Most women come down to how much you and her click, because without the intellectual attraction there is no need for a girl to get to know you. To get the girl you want you need confidence above everything else, but it’s important to know yourself and her so that you know what to say.

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence

To get the girl that you want you need confidence, and without it you can’t even choose which girl you want. The issue lies in your own personal definition of how confident you are, and many times it’s warped from what it actually is. Confidence defines an explicit ability to act on what you think, so to have confidence you must choose the girl you want before you can even get the girl that you want. Many assume that confidence is something you only need when doing something scary or difficult, but you’ve had it since you were born. If you know how to tie your shoelaces then you’ve already acquired confidence. Simply realizing that there’s no difference in the level of confidence between tying your shoe and getting the girl that you want is the first step.

Know Thyself

You must know yourself, which means your dreams, your problems, and everything else about you. Also, you need to know yourself before you can visualize the girl that you want because you’ll need to weed out your own problems before you can shoulder relationship problems. A good example is the average gamer, who sits on the couch and plays video games for hours on end. The main problem is socializing, because you are sitting in front of a screen for hours on end. To get the girl that you want you have to find someone like you that you like being around. A gaming girl still likes to socialize, it’s part of their gathering instincts of the cave man days.

Get to Know Her

To get the girl you want you have to know what you want in a girl. There must be at least five mandatory actions that you do that she must do as well. Let’s use the gamer boy example again. They play games, they eat junk food, they stay up late at night, they sleep during the day, and they don’t really like going outside. If this is true about the gamer boy, then it has to be true about the gamer girl in order for him to get the girl he wants. You must do it to get the girl you want because then there’s a high level of compatibility.

Speak Her Lingo

If the girl you want is high class then you have to match that. In order to get the girl you want you have to know her lingo, as it can be tied to how she speaks to people in general. Picking up a book about facial psychology will do wonders when trying to figure out what a woman is thinking. To get the girl you want you have to speak about your feelings, but you have to keep in mind that the girl is the prey.

 

To get the girl you want, you have to have confidence and applicable knowledge. Now that you know this, you have a good chance of being successful, so good luck and have fun out there.