Is your girlfriend telling you that she wished you were more aggressive? How can you become aggressive without overpowering?
Would you like to know how you can be the sort of guy that women tend to be really attracted to? Not passive, or weak, or shy – but rather strong, in control, and dominant?
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A very common problem with a lot of men is that they’re soft. There are many causes for this, such as growing up with a lot of influence from their mother, a city environment where they never learned to toughen up, and a distinct lack of competition.
What your girlfriend is probably implying is that you lack that hard edge. You don’t have that aggressive side to your personality and this just simply makes you less attractive to her.
The benefits of you becoming more aggressive is for you to be more attractive to your girlfriend, and be able to get a girl’s attention, which makes you feel better about yourself. How do you become more aggressive? I have included five tips that will help you learn to become a more aggressive guy.
Take up an old school fighting sport.
My biggest recommendations are either boxing or kick-boxing. There’s something about boxing that just has a really masculine, aggressive edge to it. Punching something is just a natural way to release aggression, and it sure feels good.
What I recommend is that if you do look into boxing or martial arts, go to the gym and have a look at the other guys there. Are they tough, attractive, aggressive sort of guys? Or do they look like nerds?
Get involved in a competitive sport.
You might not have the build for Rugby, but this will do an amazing effect on your personality. So investigate some sort of competitive team sport. Basically, what happens is you’ll start exposing yourself to masculine energy, you’ll learn a sense of kinship, and you’re going to be challenged. It’s just fantastic fun. Most guys who end up not being aggressive later in life never played a team sport as a child. They just never learned how to become aggressive.
Learn to have a much stronger presence.
Have a strong body language and posture. Build up your muscular definition and size. Be the guy who stands out in a crowd. A guy like Vin Diesel is probably not going to have a problem with his girlfriend telling him to be more aggressive. You know, he just looks the part.
What I recommend for you to do is look at the image of someone you find exudes aggression, and then take an honest look at yourself. If you look more like some guys from Super Dad versus the cast from The Fast and The Furious, then I highly recommend for you to work a bit more on just becoming a bit edgier, a bit dirtier, and a bit wilder.
Become a bit less apologetic and submissive in general, everyday life.
I’m not implying that you want to be like the guy who pushes little ole ladies aside in wheelchairs, that’s just bullying and not attractive at all. What I am saying is don’t be a door mat; learn to be a bit stronger and more dominant in your everyday life. Be the sort of guy that walks in a straight line and people go around you. This is how you attract women and catch their eye!
Take pride in your masculinity.
Go away for a mens weekend, or a boy’s night out. Have a good crew of friends and enjoy being a primitive male every once in a while. Learn to embrace your masculinity.
Often the idea of aggression is mixed very closely with your idea of masculinity. It’s a good idea for you just to take more pride in being a man and to learn to be okay with your dominant side. Being aggressive is not a negative connotation, being a wimp is.
Women like it when you have their back, and can take care of them if need be. It’s a great turn on, and highly worth you learning to have a more aggressive nature. Women love it when their man takes charge without being overpowering and a bully. Learn to become more aggressive, and you’ll satisfy your girlfriend, or any woman you’re with.
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