Do you want to become super attractive and sort out your dating woes once and for all?
Do you want to be that guy who gets the girl all the time and leaves his friends wondering what his secret is?
Do you want to have an abundance of women who you can call upon any time you like and never worry about being lonely again?
If you answered “YES!” to any of those questions then listen up because I’m going to share four powerful tips which you can use to become more attractive to women and dramatically improve the quality of your dating life:
- Stop complaining and take responsibility!
- Hone your self-awareness
- Surround yourself with success
- Play to your strengths!
If you have any comments or questions about how to be more attractive or how to attract women, then please leave them into the comments box at the end. I look forward to reading them and promise to respond to them as quickly as I can!
Stop complaining and take responsibility!
If you’re not having any success with women whatsoever then the first thing that you need to do is stop bitching and moaning! Here’s the bottom line: only you can turn this around. No one else is going to take responsibility for your dating life.
Obviously you need to take action and make some changes in your life. But if you don’t begin by taking responsibility then you are going to spend many more months, if not years, failing to attract the girls who you deserve.
Being more attractive isn’t about having more money, losing weight, or dressing more fashionably. Your problems with women don’t magically disappear after you reach some financial milestone. Women won’t instantly flock to you just because you’re leaner and more athletic. And overhauling your wardrobe won’t prompt every woman who you meet to drop her panties for you!
Time and time again I’ve heard guys talk about how important money, muscles, and clothes are. But it’s always a cop out. They think that these small changes will make them instantly attractive to any girl.
Don’t be like one of those guys! If you truly believe any of that, then you are delusional. If you really want to attract quality women consistently, then you need to start by taking responsibility.
When you see an attractive girl across the street, don’t tell yourself “Oh, if only I was dressed up better today” or ‘If only I had put on my special aftershave, I would totally go up to her and get her number.” If those are the sort of thoughts which go through your mind then you are cheating yourself out of golden opportunities.
Life rewards people who take responsibility by taking action. Start pushing the envelope in your life and you’ll start to see a massive difference. It’s going to be scary but amazing success is never easy. Guys who are amazing with women have had to invest countless hours into pushing past their fear, getting humiliated in front of numerous girls, and persisting at getting better and better.
THAT is what will dramatically change your fortunes with women! So man up, stop complaining, and take responsibility!
Hone your self-awareness
Developing amazing self-awareness is another essential step towards becoming more attractive to women. Be totally aware of yourself at all times. Imagine you are looking at yourself from a camera on a wall while you are interacting with women.
By observing yourself, you will start to pick up on where you might be falling short when talking with women and interacting with them. You will identify habits which may be preventing you from progressing your interaction further or from encouraging women to spend more time with you.
If you have any difficulties with being more self-aware, then I ask a friend or hire a coach to observe you while you are socializing. Pay close attention to subtle behaviours which might be deterring women or holding you back in some other way.
Surround yourself with success
Hanging around people who are already better than you at something is a great shortcut to improving yourself. Spend time with people who are attracting more women than you. Start to see life from their point of view. I guarantee that this will take your game to a whole new level!
This was actually the key to my success when I was starting out. Obviously I worked really hard and had to be extremely persistent. But, at the end of the day, my success didn’t come from reading a particular book. It came from hanging out with guys who were really good with women. I was able to improve my skills dramatically by asking them questions and observing them in action.
Play to your strengths!
We’re not all gifted charismatically. We’re not all naturally good looking. We’re not all highly extroverted. But we are all good at something. So, start with your strengths. Identify them and utilize them as much as possible.
For example, I’m actually quite an introverted guy. I’m very analytical and, therefore, not naturally very charismatic. But I know that when I get a girl’s number, my text game is a killer. My text game will get any girl, guaranteed. That’s one of my strengths, so that is what I play to.
Don’t worry too much about trying to develop every aspect of your game. Start with your strengths and leverage those as much as possible.