Being successful in life will guarantee success in every aspect of your daily living. When you have a successful life, you’ll have success with women, business, and friendships.
The secret to a successful life starts with how you live your life behind closed doors. You have to live a successful life in order to have a successful life. The two go hand in hand.
In a nutshell, here’s what I’m talking about. The problem I see is that when guys plan on going out on Friday and Saturday night, they’ll spiff themselves up by putting on their best cologne, wearing their best shirt, and put on their best game face. They’ll probably tidy up and pick up their place a bit, in the hopes that they get lucky and bring a girl home.
Then from Sunday through Thursday, they don’t really take any pride in who they are. The problem with this is, essentially they are putting on a mask and wear it on “pick-up night”. They’re trying to pretend every Friday night and Saturday night that they are a high value male. A better approach would be to just be a high value male in their everyday life, because pretending to be someone they’re not will generally backfire. The keys to success in your life begins with looking at your life and who you are.
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Key #1- Take pride in your environment.
Be someone who takes pride over your environment. Keep a clean living space. I know that when my place stays clean and picked up, I just feel better inside.Your living space reflects who you are, so if it’s sloppy and unkempt, then mentally so are you.
Be someone who takes pride over the way you look, be fashionable, and take care of yourself. Always go out in public with your best game face on. Being successful with women in your approach, your pick-up, and dating actually starts with being successful at life. It’s not a switch that you turn on and off at will. It’s not something that you do or don’t do, it just who you are, even when no one is watching.
Key #2- Try to approach a woman a day.
What I encourage guys to do is at least do one approach per day. For some guys this can just be daunting, because they’re looking at it like, “How can I possibly go to a night club every night of the week?”, and they are creating problems where none really exist.
Recognize that there are opportunities to approach women and to date women everywhere. They are all over the place, just look around you. You can approach women on public transport, at activities and hobbies that you do, as you walk down the street and do your shopping, or in the shopping center when you are looking to pick up ingredients for dinner.
The opportunities with women are endless. I bet you haven’t even looked at it this way, so start looking and finding ways to make contact with a woman. The guy who takes that approach will have going more success in the short term, but ultimately will be more successful in the long term because this approach to pick up is sustainable.
This approach is something that he can continue for the rest of his life, because the opportunities to meet and connect with women is not something that he has to go out of his way to create. Women are everywhere in your life, so use it to your advantage.
In summary: Success starts at home and with YOU.
It’s a known fact that women are out there in the world, you don’t even have to go to special places to find them. In order to take advantage of the opportunities surrounding you in meeting women and having success with your approach, you MUST be successful in your life so that you emulate that success in your appearance, your speech, your affect, and the positive aura that surrounds you.
You can’t be someone who is normally sloppy, unkempt, a nobody who doesn’t believe in himself behind closed doors, and then try to be that somebody that women want and desire. Clean up your act, and start believing in yourself. Cleaning up your surroundings and your appearance is a great place to start, because mentally it will make a difference in the way you think about life in general.
Be the same person behind closed doors as you are out in the world. Women generally aren’t attracted to bums, and don’t like being approached by one. Even a bum attitude they can spot a mile away. Change you’re way of thinking, and the way you live. Be successful in your life and I guarantee you’ll be successful with women.