Are you tired of trying to buy love with expensive gifts?
- Where does it stop?
Discover how to get her to see being with you as the ultimate gift from the moment you meet, and into your future!
Read on for more details…
***And when you are finished reading… please take a few seconds and share one of your dating frustrations. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
You are the gift…
The thing about the gift of you is that if you can get into the mindset where you see yourself as a gift, and you see a girl spending time with you as being a valuable thing to provide for her, then it sets up a good framework where there is a balance in the relationship. The problem with most guys is that they get the balance out of whack right from the start.
This is what most guys do: they meet a girl in a club who they are interested in talking to and they offer to buy her a drink just so that she will say hello to them. That’s crazy! That’s not equal, and that is not a balanced ledger. If you’re having to buy girls drinks and spend money on them just to have a conversation with them…
- What precedent does that set for the rest of your relationship?
- What gift are you going to have to buy to get a kiss?
- What gift will you have to buy to get laid?!
Too many guys have the wrong mindset…
They focus on what they have to give in order to get something in return. Don’t be like those guys! What I want to encourage you to do is to see the opportunity of spending time with you, the opportunity of kissing you, and the opportunity of having incredible sex with you as the ultimate gifts which you can give to a girl.
Shape your relationships right from the start by complimenting a girl when she does something good. Alternatively, you can reward her by saying something funny or by touching her lovingly. If she is really sweet and constantly going out of her way to impress you, you can reward her with something more significant like a kiss. Set that right from the beginning and you will create a much healthier balance in your relationships.
Are girls only attracted to you because of the external gifts which you provide?
If that’s your strategy, then you need to understand that sooner or later those gifts are going to dry up and become predictable and boring. Or someone else is going to come along and provide even more expensive gifts than you.
Working on the gift of me is critical. One of the other major benefits is that when your girlfriend treats being with you as a really valuable gift, then she will appreciate any external gifts which you get her on her birthday even more. But if you try to buy her love with stuff, then anniversary and birthday presents will no longer seem as special.
***Remember: Please share one of your dating frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer your comment personally.
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