Failing to build confidence can result in life-long consequences.
Never fear because confidence isn’t something that you’re born with… confidence is a powerful tool you can develop. And you can use it to quickly magnetize women as soon as you learn the simple ways to build more confidence today.
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Confidence isn’t just something that you have or not. Guys need to recognize that building confidence is an ongoing process that takes effort and commitment. When you appreciate that, then you can start to put an action plan in place that will help you build up your confidence and sustain it.
If you want to build more confidence with approaching women then one of things that you need to do is find your edge. Your edge is basically the point where the social tension that you feel takes you out of your comfort zone. The problem, for most guys, is that their edge is not far enough from where they currently are. They try to throw themselves way too far beyond their edge. Doing that doesn’t really help them build any confidence. In fact, they end up taking themselves right out of the game.
What all these guys are doing is trying to get an adrenaline hit to go and talk to women. Sometimes they will do it due to an external motivator, such as a friend calling them a pussy if they don’t do it. On the other hand, they may put up a persona to find the extra courage that they need.
Take small steps beyond the edge of your comfort zone
The key to building self confidence without stressing yourself is by taking small steps. Work out where your edge is and push yourself to that point without going too far. For example, if your edge is going up to a girl and saying hi to her, then stick with that. Do that until you start to become comfortable with it, a sure way to slowly build self esteem. Once you are confident with approaching women, then you can push yourself that little bit further.
For example, the next step might be asking a girl about their day or how their night is going. From there, you can progress to being more direct and making your interest clear. You might say something like, “You know what? You’re really cute. The real reason that I came over to talk to you is that I felt you were someone who I wanted to find out more about.”
Make momentum a habit
When guys recognize where their edge is and push themselves beyond it, then they will start to build some momentum with overcoming social anxiety. They will begin to feel better about themselves because they can see that they are achieving their goals. They will recognize that they are moving past their former limitations, and that really builds confidence.
If you build enough momentum and push yourself to your edge on a regular basis, then you will get to a point where you will develop really deep self-confidence. When that happens, you will find that you will no longer have to force yourself to your edge. You will naturally gravitate to your edge all the time. This is the place where you want to be. No one is born with confidence. Some people just begin to build it sooner than others. Are you tired of waiting for your confidence to appear?
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