Building rapport will take your ability to get girls to a whole new level.
You can use it to persuade people, befriend people, or win the heart of the girl of your dreams…it really is that powerful! If you want to achieve this and more then you need to develop powerful rapport building techniques.
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What is building rapport?
Rapport occurs when two or more people feel that they are in sync or on equal wavelength with each other. It’s the power to make anyone think they’ve known you for years the first time they meet you. Can you imagine walking into an interview for the job of your dreams and have the ability to dazzle and befriend your boss?
Building rapport with customers is also important, as well as having the success of attracting women. Have you ever wanted to go on a date where she can be so comfortable and so drawn to you right off the bat that she sees you as potential boyfriend material?
In this article, I’m going to outline one technique that’s going to help you build rapport with someone new and do it well. You’ll be blown away by the power of one simple concept! It’s called mirroring and matching.
What is mirroring and matching?
Mirroring and matching requires you to almost enter the other person’s world by assuming a similar state of mind. It’s based on the theory that the more someone is like us, the more they will establish rapport and trust.
If you can turn mirroring and matching on in the beginning stages of your interaction, the other person will be immediately drawn to you. It’s the strategy that charming ladies, men, and world leaders use. Just imagine a life with more friends, more women, and better jobs. Wouldn’t that be nice?
Word of warning: the key to effectively mirror and match the other person is to not make it look obvious. As soon as the other person identifies that you’re mirroring and matching them, then you run the risk of not being trustworthy and coming across as a fake!
What are the steps necessary in order to be successful in mirroring and matching?
Step #1: Mirror their language.
You’d be amazed at the effects of using similar language to that of the other person. Pick up on things like slang, phrasing, rate, and volume. For example, if they talk slowly in a deep voice, then you do the same. This helps in developing the interpersonal skills that are so important when talking with people.
See if you can adopt the same breathing pattern as the other person. Be observant of their chest and shoulders and get your breathing in sync with theirs. Mirroring their language makes them comfortable in talking with you. It’s simple and very useful in getting along with people and establishing trust.
Step #2: Observe their moods and match it.
Match their level of energy. If they’re somber and low-key, you don’t want to be loud and energetic. Conversely, if they’re high energy and full of life, you don’t want to be low-key and moody.
People get along better with people who are most like them. This is key to building the trust that comes with building rapport. We develop friendships with people who have the same mindsets and mannerisms that we emulate. It’s just human nature.
Step #3: Mirror their body language.
If their arms are folded, then fold your arms as well. If they’re head is resting on their hands, do the same! Once again, don’t look like you’re purposely trying to match them; this is something you want to do gradually and make it look natural.
Don’t make them feel as if you are mimicking them. It makes them think you are making fun of them, and just adds insult to injury. Learn to be subtle in mirroring their body language gestures to where it comes off as being your own. If you want to build stronger relationships and win the affection of others, start implementing mirroring and matching into your life today.
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