Are you too scared of “casual sex” to make a move?
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Say you’re at a bar and you’ve met someone.
Let’s say, just for fun, that she is the hottest, most beautiful woman you’ve seen that entire day, if not the whole week. You feel a sudden rush of attraction for this woman, and then – it happens. Your eyes meet. After you both engage in conversation, you feel like you want to have sex with her, right at that moment, or sooner, if possible. You might even feel like you wish you’d already had sex. Is it time to let her know how you feel? Or is that too soon and are you going to send her running if you open your mouth?
What’s your rush?
Some guys could probably have sex, or even a casual relationship, with that girl…if they just waited just a little bit longer. You’ve got a few good years ahead of you, or at least I hope you do. Unless your days are numbered in some way, you can probably hang in there with your burning desire a little while longer. You can go to a club and meet a girl at 10PM or later, get her number, and then there’s no harm to be had if you then called her at 1AM to see what she’s up to – except if she’s still living with her parents, which you should definitely find out beforehand to avoid getting things off on a very bad footing. This sort of followup can always lead to you having casual sex that very night.
She knows what’s up.
It’s an unwritten rule, but if you’re calling a girl at 2 in the morning and asking her where she is or what she’s up to, and vice versa, that she’ll be pretty observant of what’s up. It’s called a booty call, for a reason. Girls are usually flattered that you are still thinking of them in the middle of the night, and are attracted to them in a sexual way. Guys can be the same way: if a girl is sending messages in the middle of the night, asking them what they are doing at 2AM? She’s either a raving insomniac, or you’ve got a horny young lady on your hands, which is not a bad position to be in. The best time to make your move is in the early hours of the night, when she’s just finished clubbing and is ready to have sex.
When we want it–we want it.
Note that it’s a whole different story altogether, whether she’s sober or not. If a girl wants to have sex, she wants to have sex. Doesn’t really matter if they’ve been drinking, though a drink or two might make a girl a little less nervous. A girl doesn’t need to get drunk to be sexual, however.
Girls think about sex just as much as guys do. Girls love casual relationships, despite society suggesting that they don’t. Some girls go out with their friends and work themselves into a frenzy, just talking about guys and looking at them. Remember: the female sex is the one that gets off on imagination and romance novels! Key into that vibe when you’re looking for casual sex contact.
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