Jun 22, 2012

I have had many questions on how does an introverted guy get a date, get her number and get… Is there a specific way to counsel him that delivers proven results? How does an introverted guy even begin to get in on the dating scene in a way that’s going to work for him? Being an introverted guy myself we do enjoy our own company, and we often find it...

Jun 22, 2012

Dear Vin, Why do I seem to struggle so much with women? I’m really shy and I find it effects other areas of my life as well. Can I get beyond my challenges? My thoughts are that when it comes to shy guys and women, the issue is shy guys just do not value their own worth, they simply don’t believe that they have anything of value to offer the...

Jun 22, 2012

Have you been through a recent break up? Do you want to learn the best way to get through a break up? If so, read on and I will give you tips and proven methods for getting through it.   If you have ideas or solutions for getting through a break up, or questions on the subject, comment in the box below. I read and reply to every post! 1. Distract...

Jun 21, 2012

It’s a dilemma some of us face. We’re scared of committing to one girl, and we consider cheating. But how do you do it? Here, I reply to Sancho’s letter. Dear Vin, I have a long-term girlfriend and I love her and I don’t really want to hurt her, but man, after reading a lot of the advice on your website, I’ve been getting so much more attention from a...

Jun 20, 2012

[This is a direct extract from part of an interview we conducted with Vin on topics such as social skills, social anxiety, and conversation techniques.] How do you make conversation with people? I ask this especially on behalf of a lot of people who suffer from social anxiety, and get pretty stressed out even just thinking about talking to strangers. I think one...

Jun 20, 2012

Does the mere thought of interacting with girls send chills down your back? Are you wondering how a pretty shy guy can develop confidence with girls? The key factor in all of this is repetition and experience. Self-confidence can basically be defined as knowledge or trust in your ability to deal with something. So it’s not surprising that if you’ve...