Ugly guys… getting hot women? Is it possible? You see it every day; guys who work magic over gorgeous woman. Check this out to become one…
If you oftentimes think, “I am an ugly guy and there is no way a beautiful woman will even take a second look at me,” then you aren’t giving yourself enough credit. Do you know why? Because for women, looks only play a small part in what attracts them to guys. Women are more attracted to guys who have attitude and self-confidence, and that, my friend, has EVERYTHING to do with sex appeal.
In this article, I’m going to let you in on the factors that actually appeal to women so that you no longer stress over the looks that you were born with. By adding certain elements to your life, you’ll increase your attractability and your ability to woo those beautiful women into your life. So, what are the elements in life that you need to attract those hot babes that you see every day?
Element #1: Confidence.
You have GOT to have a confident attitude towards life. Confidence indicates that you are successful and can be trusted. Confidence is very sexy; it shows that you’re in control, you’re decisive, and that you also trust yourself. If you trust yourself, others will as well. Women will easily trust you with themselves when you exude confidence.
Trust is one of the biggest issues that women have with guys. If they don’t trust you, they aren’t going to approach you or let you approach them. If you don’t have self-confidence, then your body language will give you away before you ever speak a word. Women are keen on picking up non-verbal cues, and if you don’t believe in yourself, then they won’t believe in you either.
Element #2: Physical strength.
For most women, it doesn’t matter how you look if you’ve got a decent body. Once you add some muscle to your physique, this will instantly add a sense of excitement and security in women. It also alludes to dominance, which is a VERY seductive trait.
However, never use muscles as a substitute for confidence. Self-confidence is why we often see the ugly guys with the hot girls, but being built also insures that you look like a guy who can handle himself and who also takes pride in his body.
Element #3: Have a sense of humor.
Being funny and witty is attractive to females because it alludes that you’re a smart and charismatic guy. It also implies that you’re a lot of fun to be around, and women love to be in the company of guys who have that quality about them. If you can make people laugh and feel happy, then people will naturally be drawn into your world because you make them feel good about themselves.
Element #4: Be playful.
Playfulness means that you like to have fun, which consequently triggers feelings of attraction amongst the women. I like to think of being playful as a form of flirtation. It’s almost as if you are treating women like you would treat your little sister, by making fun of them and keeping that child-like quality that keeps all of us young. It keeps you from being boring, and boring is not something that will ever keep a woman’s attention.
Element #5: Be a touchy feely type of guy.
Human touch is powerful when it comes to triggering feelings of attraction. Naturally, we find that touchy people have a lot more sex than people who refrain from human contact. It’s very important when you talk and interact with a woman that you become a lot touchier. I’m not talking about groping, so don’t take this as permission to man-handle women. It will be a huge turn-off for women, and have them running away from you instead of running towards you.
A great example of this is if you have ever watched European guys; as they’re talking, they’re touching you. Even if you’re not a woman, they use their hands to express themselves. You’ve got to take on a similar persona when you’re with women. If you can’t get physical, then you can’t get touchy, and it will become extremely difficult for you to transition into a more sexual frame with any woman.
Element #6: Be well dressed and well spoken.
You can really amp up your attractiveness with the clothes you wear. Being well dressed also demonstrates social status and accentuates your physical features, which shows that you take pride in your appearance. You must also have a deep, commanding voice, because your voice speaks volumes about who you are.
If you have a squeaky, feminine voice, it often portrays you as a guy who lacks a dominate nature. If you have a very strong, commanding voice, it just shows that you’ve got confidence, you’re self-assured, and you will ALWAYS leave a strong impression on anyone you are conversing with.
Element #7: Have leadership qualities.
Being a leader is a major turn-on for any woman. It demonstrates social status and importance, and portrays you as a decisive kind of guy. You’re a guy that’s in command and that other people look up to and respect.
When you have a dominant nature, women are naturally submissive. A man that shows a natural dominance is very appealing. It’s important to get in touch with your masculine side and exert that energy. because it’s that energy that turns women’s heads. Women love alpha males, simply because these types make them feel safe and secure.
Element #8: Be intelligent.
Intelligence demonstrates knowledge and adds many dimensions to your life. It increases the perception that you’re obviously doing very well in your career and you’re someone that’s going to be an adequate provider for her. Being intelligent also gives you the ability to keep up in conversations. When you are a multi-faceted individual and come off as being well-versed in different topics, it gives you the ability to keep a woman’s attention. You’ll be more effective in your conversations, which in turn makes you more effective in your attraction to women.
Element #9: Have a sense of adventure.
If you are curious about life and are willing to take risks, then you have the ability to lure women into your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits. Adventurous guys have the persona that they live life on the edge and their life is full of excitement and adventure, which is extremely appealing to women. Men who lead this type of life have a sex appeal that exudes from every pore of their being.
Hot girls with ugly guys is more of the norm because of these qualities. It’s almost like the dumb blonde scenario we all joke about. Sure, men find blondes attractive, but if there is nothing on the inside, then there is nothing to keep a guy interested or engaged. The old adage, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, is very true. Being a man of substance is the beauty of why ugly guys get the hot chicks.