Dating Tips

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Today, I am going to give you some amazing dating tips that are going to help you find a woman. It is easy, but it will take balls – that said, if you want it bad enough, you’ll learn to be attractive. So, listen up!

If you are trying to attract women, then this tells me a couple of things about you. It tells me that you want to easily attract women without much effort. It also tells me that you want to blow your friends away when they see you with the hottest girl in the club.

But, is this enough?

Want it, think it, do it!

One missing element that many guys have when it comes to approaching women is their lack of intent. Whenever you travel to Europe, the guys there are open with their intentions towards women. They are not afraid to show how they feel about a woman.

Learn to be like this! Often, and I know I used to do this a lot, guys would drink just to give themselves an excuse to be someone different when finding a woman and hitting on her.

If you want maximum dating success, you need to drop this and openly display your intent with women at all times. A guy that owns his intent and does not try to hide it stands out and will display confidence and attractiveness to any girl.

Initially, this might be uncomfortable and it is going to make you feel awkward at times. However, and trust me on this, push past that awkwardness, push past that uncomfortable zone, and you will increase your success in no time.

First tip: Get some intent in your eyes…

When you really look at her eyes and give her a sexual glare, the best thing to do is think of her naked and to think of her body rubbing up against yours.

Think of her face as she orgasms. When you look at her in a club when you first meet her, try to visualize that as much as you can. She will be able to feel it. It will be magnetic. She will feel your energy filter through.

Second tip: Initiate the conversation…

Tell her what you think of her. Do not be scared. If she is driving you crazy, if she is making you nervous, tell her that her good looks and her beautiful, sexy body is just distracting you and you cannot think rationally at the moment. I will tell you, if you can do this you will set yourself apart from every other guy because no guy generally has the balls to be upfront with their feelings.

Third tip: Inject some intent into your touch…

Demonstrate intent with your touch. Rather than just indulging in friendly conversation, get to her and touch her, sexualize the conversation, and get physical with her. Grab her hand, hug her, touch her, or play with her hair. All this demonstrates a strong sexual attraction towards her.

Then, she will not be left wondering what your true intention for her is. You have basically laid your cards on the table and have shown the balls that you are not scared of communicating your intent for her. This is how to be attractive.

Intent WILL stop you being friend zoned!

In addition, demonstrating intent will never leave you in the friend zone. Friend zoning happens to everyone, it even happened to me.

I would feel like I was really connecting with the girl, that I was getting to know her, and one day she was going to see me as being her knight in shining armor. However, she was just too busy screwing all the jerks that did not give a damn about how she felt, but just used her for her body.

Girls are sexual beings and they have sexual needs. If you are a guy that can own his intent, you are going to bypass her natural resistance and make her almost instantly attracted to you.

If you have any comments or queries regarding the best ways to attract women to you, please leave them in the comments box below. I look forward to reading all your comments and I will try to respond to them as quickly as I can.

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Sex: it’s one of the most enjoyable parts of our lives, yet for a lot of us, it can also be one of the scariest things to do. Guys often hear about stories of friends that do amazing things in the bedroom, and it can put pressure on you to perform and improve bedroom performance.

Sex is something that’s on your mind constantly – and knowing how to enjoy sex is essential. So, what can you do to forget all your worries and just enjoy yourself?

Well, if you feel like you worry too much about sex and performing well, then it is time to take a step back and start to rethink the way you view sex. I am going to give you some tips and strategies on how you can enjoy having sex more and show you how sex can be fun again.

It’s simple – Be good at sex!

I’m often amazed by the number of guys that don’t invest any time in building their skills in the bedroom. Being good in the bedroom has so many benefits in your life.

Learn as much as you can about the female anatomy and sex. One of the greatest educational tools that I used to become great in the bedroom was How To Eat Pussy Like a Champ, which is a great book to help you learn how to eat a girl out.

I also learned a lot from Two Girls Teach Sex, which is a video showing you how to improve your bedroom ability. After watching this video, I would often try different things out and experiment – and the more I did, the more I learned a lot about pleasing women in the bedroom and giving them an amazing experience.

You don’t have to be perfect…

I remember wanting every sexual experience to be like a romantic scene in a Hollywood movie where everything would be perfect. In reality, sex is not perfect. It can sometimes be messy, it can sometimes be a little sloppy, but that’s OK.

It’s natural, and you have to accept that it’s not always going to be perfect and sometimes you may come too early and she may not be 100% pleased. Sometimes, things may not run smoothly, but that’s just normal. The more you can accept that, the more you can allow yourself to really enjoy sex.

It’s important to have sex as much as you can. When you are involved in a social experience, try to maximize every opportunity to get some, even if it is sleeping with girls that you don’t find very attractive. The more you have sex, the more comfortable you’re going to get and the more experience you’ll gain.

Keep it spontaneous…

Sex can become almost like a chore if it’s very routine based. Sex needs to be spontaneous. You want to make it surprising, unpredictable, and implement new things in your bedroom. The more you do it, the more you’ll enjoy it and the more she’ll get out of it. So be a little bit spontaneous when you’re out.

Go and escape somewhere in the open air and have sex in the outdoors or perhaps introduce a new toy in the bedroom. The more you can shake it up the more enjoyable it’s going to be and the less predictable sex will be.

If you have any comments or queries regarding how to enjoy sex, please leave them in the comments box below. I look forward to reading all your comments and queries and I try to respond to them as quickly as I can.

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If you want to attract women using online dating, there are a couple of key things you could do to help improve your chances.

When a girl and her friends see your profile, you want them to smile and get excited. Online dating gives guys crucial information about women that they may not already know about. By learning what women want, you can boost your chances of successful conversations, a first date, and maybe even something more.

I know a lot of guys that tend to be bad with women, and most of the time it’s because they haven’t been with many women before – so it’s difficult for them to find women. Now, the beautiful thing about online dating is that it allows you to build up your knowledge of women. There are plenty of opportunities to practice on dating sites, without “embarrassing” yourself.

Women often like to keep active…

Women often like to go to the gym – they love to look after themselves, especially when they are single. No doubt if they are looking for a guy, they are going to want a similar commitment in life. So, if you are not already getting some form of physical activity, then you may be disadvantaged. You could, perhaps, go to the gym or attend a marathon. Maybe join a martial arts course.

Women love books…

The next characteristic that online dating teaches you is that women love books and reading. Women read anything from fiction to autobiographies and enjoy keeping their minds active. Perhaps, to relate to her more, you could increase your knowledge of literature.

Whether that includes reading more or attending evening classes, keeping your mind active is going to be more attractive to women.

Women want an ambitious guy…

Last of all, women are really looking for a guy that is ambitious. Often, when you read about what women are looking for, they want someone who is caring, trustworthy, and most of all, they are looking for someone that’s career-minded and determined in life.

So, think about your own life! Is your career going where you want it to be going? In five years’ time, what are you going to look like? Make sure you’re on the right track and that the woman knows this! Attracting women depends on this.

You need to show her that you have stability in life, too. Once you’ve mastered this, you’ll be able to find the right woman for you online without any hiccups. Good luck!

If you have any comments or queries regarding this article or you would like to know more about how to attract women on dating sites, please leave your comments in the box below. I look forward to reading them and try to respond as much as possible.

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Bad boys tend to conjure up this biological attraction within girls. They don’t know why they are feeling attracted to this guy, as they know he’s wrong for them, but they’re still attracted! Want to know how to make those same feelings rise in every girl’s nether-regions?

Logic doesn’t come into it…

Logic doesn’t come into girls acting impulsively, and the good news for you today is that you can learn the characteristics that bad boys have, without having to be a bad boy. You’ll benefit from the lack of logic, because knowing how to be a bad boy doesn’t require you to be bad!

Adopt a relaxed attitude…

First, to be a bad boy, you need to adopt a confident and relaxed attitude. These are key attributes that help make a bad boy fearless. He is confident within himself, he has a calm demeanor where he feels like he is unbreakable, and nothing is going to stand in his way. You want to approach every situation with girls like that. Be fearless. Be a risk taker. Know what you want and go after it hard until you get it.

Be indifferent to negative responses from women…

When you go out enough, you will generate some negative responses from women. They can have their bitch-shield up and be protective of their space. This is because they get guys that hit on them all the time, and generally hit on them in the wrong way.

So, be indifferent to that. Laugh it off. Laugh off any kind of negative responses that you might get with a girl and show her that you are different from other guys. Other guys might walk away dejected, but you find it funny and challenging. This is how to get women.

Be more sexually aggressive…

Get in touch with your animal side, the sexual beast that lies within you, and learn to bring it out as much as possible. Get into a sexual state before you go out by watching porn and not masturbating. Envision yourself with a girl even as you’re talking to her and introducing yourself.

Inject some excitement in your life…

Bad boys are exciting. They are unpredictable. You never know what is going to happen. They are always on an interesting journey. You can do the same without getting into trouble or having to break the law.

You could travel more or take on some adventurous hobbies. It could be mountain climbing or car racing, just something that gives you a bit of an edge. Do something that spikes your adrenaline and gives you a wild story to tell later.

Be more fearless…

Get comfortable with being out of your comfort zone. Get comfortable with putting yourself in situations which might be considered high risk and embrace that. You know, being fearless is a major attribute that most successful people in this world hold.

I remember a famous quote from a guy called Gary Halibut. He once said that fear is not an option. Deal with it and move on or face living a boring and dull life like the rest of the population.

If you let fear dictate you, then chances are you are going to have little to no success with women. But, if you take on a fearless approach, the world will have no limitations for you. Getting the girl is not possible!

Comment below with your bad boy stories. If you do it right, the number of girls who show an interest in you will skyrocket!

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They say confidence comes with knowledge, and that also applies when it comes to your skills in the bedroom. The more understanding, knowledge, and practice you have, the more confident you are going to be in the bedroom.

Being sexually confident is such an important thing in life. Having sexual confidence helps you in your interactions with women because when you’re able to please a woman, you no longer have any fear of bringing her home or being sexual with her.

As a guy, when you’re not sexually confident and when you don’t know how to please a woman, it really affects your masculinity. You don’t really feel like a real man. You feel like, in a sense, a bit of a loser, you know?

If you feel as though a lack of sexual confidence is affecting your love life, I’d like to give you a few strategies to help you stimulate your ego.

First, build your knowledge of sex…

Build on your knowledge of sex and the female anatomy. For your sexual experience to be a success, it’s important for you to understand how a woman’s body works and how to turn her on. Learning about the female anatomy gave me a map to successfully please a woman using her most pleasurable areas. So, I knew even if I fell short, I could still get her to have an amazing orgasm!

Learn how to effectively touch a girl…

Touching is such an important aspect in physical escalation – not only in the bedroom but also when you are in the process of seducing the girl. Knowing you can please during seduction helps you improve confidence to no end.

Having a nice touch can really stimulate a girl inside and outside the bedroom, and one little technique that really helped my ability to turn a girl on was just by lightly using my fingertips to brush her skin. I would do this in foreplay and, even more so, whilst I was kissing a girl.

Have more sexual experiences…

Now this seems really obvious, but the more you put yourself out there and sleep with girls, the more confidence you will get. If you’re struggling to get girls into bed with you, then you really need to broaden your horizons.

Girls love having sex, and there are plenty of girls that want to have sex. Maybe it’s a matter of lowering your standards for a little while and screwing some girls that you may find a little less attractive. It could even be going to a brothel here and there or logging into an adult website and meeting girls that just want an arrangement to have sex. Either way, the more you put yourself out there, the more confidence you are going to get.

If you have any comments or queries regarding how to be confident in bed, please leave them in the comments box below. I look forward to reaching all your comments and queries, and I try to respond to them as quickly as possible.

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Want to know how to chat with random strangers? Read on and you’ll find out how this is a key way to finding a woman.

Chatting with strangers improves your social life…

One of the easiest ways to improve your networking ability and invigorate your social life is to develop the ability to talk to strangers. Building connections in your life, meeting new friends, and developing the ability to entertain and attract girls makes your life so much better and helps improve your quality of life.

The more people in your life, the better your quality of life is going to be; the better your quality of life is going to be, the longer and happier you are going to live. So, let’s not discount how important it is to be able to chat with random strangers.

Adjust your mindset…

The first essential thing for you to adjust, to be able to start chatting with strangers, is your mindset. If you are naturally a shy person and, perhaps, a little introverted, then you need to invest a fair bit of time in the skill of talking around strangers. But, let me tell you, it’s going to be worth it when you get it right. It’s going to dramatically change your life.

By changing your mindset, you can make finding a date and getting the girl something you are motivated to do.

But how do you adjust a mindset?

Write down the kind of person that you want to be. The sort of person you want to see yourself become, the people that you want in your life, and think about how you can achieve that by improving your social skills.

The biggest deterrent to becoming more sociable is the fear of rejection and people rejecting you for who you are.

Learn to not take things personally…

At least 95% of the time, when a person reacts negatively to you, it has absolutely nothing to do with you personally. Most likely they are having a bad day or you caught them at the wrong moment.

Maybe people have harassed them before and now they assume you have bad intentions, or maybe they are just not that cool and you wouldn’t gain much from knowing them anyway. So, it’s important that you just frame it as nothing against you personally.

Some simple steps to help you chat to women and strangers…

A couple of little steps that you can take to pick up your social skills and talk to random strangers easily is to practice smiling at people. If you are going for a walk to your train station or you are walking into a club or a venue, all it takes is to just smile at people, nod your head, and say hello.

The second step is to find something to comment on…

So, if you are in a social situation, find something in the room or in life that you can comment on. Start to be more observant with your surroundings.

For instance, if there is something happening in the room that you can draw attention to, then you know go up to them and say, “Hey guys, did you notice blah, blah, blah,” and get into conversation mode. Just be more observational and more aware of what’s happening around you.

Use humor!

Perhaps use humor to get over the nerves and break the ice with people. Make a joke about something.

Finally, don’t be afraid to ask questions…

Be curious. Be really curious and intrigued about people. Go up and ask them a question. People love talking about themselves. In fact, most people’s number one topic in life is themselves. So, if you go up and you show interest in someone, then more than likely they are going to want to expand on the topic and talk a little bit more about themselves.

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In this article, I’m going to give you some key fundamentals that are crucial to finding women, and the best tips on how to attract a girl. These tips are what really helped me improve my dating skills dramatically.

Believe in yourself…

I used to fear that if I couldn’t attract a girl, I would one day end up old and lonely. Finding a date isn’t possible if you continually think of yourself in a negative light.

You know we’re not getting any younger, and the older we get, the harder it gets to meet attractive women. We need to utilize our younger years and get the most out of ourselves. So, I urge you to take this information and to take action.

Tip one: Get out of the house…

Yes, it’s really that easy. Get out of the house and take action. Taking action is critical, and getting out of your house and meeting new people is the first step. One thing I really found hard was the thought of leaving my computer and my TV and all my video games to go out and face fear.

It almost put me off many times, and I would avoid it again and again, but I soon realized that I needed to make the jump.

So, ask yourself, what are you at risk of losing if you don’t take action right now?  What regrets would you have later in life if you never actually got this issue sorted out?

Tip two: Play to win!

It’s natural to want to avoid bad emotions. Wayne Gretzky once quoted, “You miss 100% of the shots that you don’t take.”  So, start focusing on taking action right now. Start shaving away the excuses. Start shaving away all the fears. Guys will generally want to get laid, but also not look bad – the stronger emotion will win.

Letting go of your ego will not only help you with women but will help you maximize your opportunities in all areas of your life. Have some fun when you go out and meet women. Women are attracted to guys that are positive and have good energy.

Tip three: Think positive, be positive…

The more you enjoy yourself, the more attractive you’re going to be to a girl. I like to call this freedom from outcome. In other words, just not really giving a fuck and having fun with everything! Life’s short and you don’t want to spend your time hung up on fear.

Tip four: Remember you can’t have any girl…

It’s also really important to remember that no one ever gets every girl – not even close!  Realize that there is not one guy on this planet that every girl is attracted to. If you’re not getting rejected, you’re not hitting on enough girls!

Rejection is going to be a part of the process. You need to learn to accept it. Laugh it off, have some fun with it. I once created a challenge for some of my students who were really struggling to get sexual with a girl.

I wanted them to go out and get rejected in the worst possible way. They got slapped, had a glass poured over them, and I would give them really sexual things to say to girls. It was actually a lot harder than you think to get a girl to get angry and reject you outright!

So, when you start letting go of this idea that you can attract any girl, then it’s going to take the burden of pressure off of you and you’ll accept that rejection will be a part of the process and move on quite easily.

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When you know how to be happy single, your woes of not having a girlfriend will not be as difficult. You’ll learn that you can be single and happy, whilst looking for love. Master happiness when single, and the world’s your oyster!

Do you wish that one day you’ll get a girl and be happy?

Feel like nothing will be perfect until you have a girl on your arm? I once felt like this, but I never realized that I could also be happy being single.

It might sound quite funny and a little hard to believe, but I really felt like just getting a girl in my life would take care of all my problems and issues and most importantly make me feel truly happy.

I was totally delusional, because women were not the answers to my problems and finding a girl to be almost like the center of my universe would be one of the dumbest things I could do as a guy. Why? Because happiness should start from within you!

You should be the core of your happiness…

If you’re finding people to inject happiness in your life, then you’re really allowing yourself to open up to getting hurt, because as soon as that person leaves you, you run the risk of your world crumbling down around you. Hence, it’s important that you find true happiness within yourself and within the things you do.

When I broke up with my first girlfriend, I was really devastated. My whole world crashed around me and I had basically no motivation to even want to get out of my house – and I realized that I had devoted all my years to this one girl and I really didn’t have any focus on myself. I didn’t think I could ever be happy again.

I didn’t really know what I wanted in my life, I didn’t know what actually made me happy and this was a major flaw in my relationship that I vowed never to let happen again. I really wanted to understand what made me happy as a guy because women should not be your whole life. They should be the icing on top of your life.

Re-assess your life and say, “I am single and happy!”

So, I started to really re-assess where I was at in my life, in terms of my career. Was I happy in my job? Was I really passionate about what I did?  Was I feeling like I was making a difference in my life?

When I started to really question these things, I started to bring a stronger focus into my life. Rather than be dictated by circumstance, I started to create the life that I wanted for myself. I was also more attractive to girls because I was a happier person that really had myself sorted out. Now you need to do the same.

So, I really recommend for yourself to get your life sorted out. Work out what things drive you in life. What are the things that make you happy?  It’s worth putting the time into thinking about you as a person and what you really want and how to bring that sort of happiness into your life.

Once you figure that out then you’ll no longer need a woman to complete you. You’ll be fully completed and anyone that does enter your life will just be a bonus.

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Do you admire speakers who can captivate an audience instantly? When great speakers talk, they are so believable that you cannot take your focus and attention away from them. They really draw you in. When you become a great speaker, you’ll learn how easy it is to capture the audience and utilize effective speech techniques.

What are the elements that make a great speaker? 

First of all, a great speaker must be authoritative. Top caliber speakers strike you as an authority figure. You need to be admired to be good at public speaking. These people know what they are talking about. They are experts in their field. When they talk about something, they talk about it with conviction and really believe in what they are trying to sell you or tell you.

You can see some of these guys on TV commercials at night. When they talk, they are just enthusiastic and draw you into what they are saying. You can see it in good politicians, too, that can captivate you with their words and make you believe in what they are saying.

That authoritative nature is something that is important to learn, and one thing that really helped me was to actually know what I was speaking about and be prepared before I actually delivered my speech.

Have a good attitude for persuasive speaking…

Some of the greatest speakers do not go up there with the intention of just delivering a speech. They almost go up there like they are having a conversation with their audience, almost like they are talking to their friends at a dinner table, and that is a really good thing to have because you do not want to be speaking at your audience.

You want to be speaking to them and making them feel actively engaged in what you are saying. It also shows that you are comfortable. When you are up there and you’re conversing with your audience, it just makes them feel more comfortable, and also makes you look more in control.

Consider your audience…

The audience becomes the centerpiece of your attention, so if you focus too much on yourself and the impression that you are trying to make, you will become unnerved by simple mispronunciations and will easily lose your confidence and poise. But, if you focus too much on the message, the event turns into a lifeless recitation. So, really focus on the audience, what the audience wants, and really engaging and interacting with the audience.

Use humor and stories in your talk…

You want to keep people entertained by making them laugh or telling stories that are believable and relatable. Talking about an experience that you had as a child, or something that people could relate to within themselves, really helps capture their attention and allows them to grasp the information that you are trying to convey.

Your voice is crucial in the way your message is delivered…

If you speak in a whiny or nasally tone, it does not matter what you are saying, it is not going to come across as strong and you are not going to come across as a speaker with great conviction. So, it is important to really focus on your diaphragm and make sure that your voice is coming from the diaphragm. Project and annunciate, but don’t shout.

Practice, practice, practice…

To become a great speaker, you have to become comfortable in general. The more opportunities you put yourself in and the more experiences you gather, the more comfortable you are going to get and the better speaker you are going to become. Try to talk openly to people one-on-one, in groups, and especially to people you don’t know. Be amiable and find a way to make each interaction comfortable for you and the audience.

Practice at open mic nights…

There are a ton of open mic nights everywhere for poetry and comedians. This might be challenging, but it gets you exposure in front of an audience and really puts you to the test of having to go up there and talk to hold an audience’s attention.

Volunteer as much as possible to make speeches, maybe at special events, fundraisers, or work meetings, any opportunity you have. Put yourself in that position where you can get up there and talk so you can get more comfortable with public speaking.

Becoming a great public speaker is a great and necessary life-skill to have. It will help you chat with women and become a more charismatic person. It will help you in the work place if you ever decide you want to take on a leadership role in the job. It will make you a more valuable and confident person overall, so never shy away from voicing your thoughts.

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I remember my first MILF experience as though it was yesterday. Megan – she was 37, sexy and elegant. In her youth, she would have been an absolute stunner. But even as an older woman, she still had that sexiness. I was young and still learning my trade. Megan helped turn me from being a boy into a man. She taught me things, and did things, that stay with me to this day.

There are huge advantages to dating older women…

Firstly, they’re far more sexually experienced and relaxed about sex. Older, mature women will do things to you that younger women just don’t know about. At the same time, sex is not such a big deal to them. They’ve had their time playing the field, having fun. They love sex, but they don’t get caught up in it. It’s not as big a deal to them as it is to an 18-year-old. Because of that, it allows you to relax into the sexual experience a lot more.

The second big advantage is they have better control of their emotions. They understand that life’s not all roses. Things don’t always work out the way you want. And they’re OK with that. It’s rare that you get immature emotional breakdowns with an older, more mature woman.

The third factor is older women know how to take care of you. They usually have their own place, or at least the space that they’re renting. They know how to cook meals. They know how to massage you in all the right ways. Dating older women can be an amazing experience. But how do you do it?

How do you attract older women, particularly if you’re a younger guy? Well, finding dirty MILFs is easier than you think, and you can break it down into two steps.

The first step – Be sexually direct…

You express this through your eye contact, your body language, and your verbal communication. Don’t mess around with indirect notions or openers. Just go straight up to her and tell her that she’s sexy. If you do this in a confident way, you will connect with her on a core level. In line with this, you want your physical touch to be direct as well.

The second step – Physically dominate her…

Your goal with an older woman is to physically dominate her. Ravish her with your touch, pull her in aggressively, and push her away as well. Let her know that you want to rip her clothes off immediately. If you can make an older woman feel like a young school girl again, experience those sexual drives that she felt during her teenage years, then you’re there.

You need to pass her test…

You need to hold your own. Because of their experience and the place and phase of their life that they’re currently in, older women will have no issue testing you. And they’ll know how to get you where it hurts.

If you see these tests and shrink, you’re in trouble. She’s going to chew you up and spit you out quicker than a shark on feeding day. What you need to do instead is re-frame the experience. When an older woman tests you, what she’s ultimately saying is, “I like you, you’re kind of cute. But I need to find out if you’re man enough to handle me.”

Therefore, if an older woman tests you, you know you’re doing something right.

There are two ways to react to a test…

  1. The first way is to not react. Just ignore it and keep escalating on it. This is a powerful strategy. It will get her tingly in all the right places if you can demonstrate that you’re unaffected by her challenges.
  2. The second way is to challenge her hoop with a hoop of your own. So, when she throws a test or a compliance challenge at you, you simply respond the same way. By far the best way of responding to challenges that I’ve experienced is asking, “Why do you ask?” Let’s put this into a practical example.

If an older women says, “Do you think you’re old enough to handle me?” you simply reply, “Why do you ask?” Essentially, what you’re doing is flipping the test back around on her. “Why do you ask?” is hands-down one of the most powerful responses to a compliance test you can give.

Once you’ve mastered how the older woman works, and realize what a great opportunity lies before you, a whole new era in your sex life will begin. Enjoy!