Showing interest in your child’s learning is the beginning to attracting your kid’s teacher. Going all the way with a teacher requires a few changes in the game plan compared to most women. After all, teachers are self-made, independent thinkers that either liked children or had a never-ending craving for the ability to learn. Here are five things that appeal and attract your kid’s teacher.
You and Your Child
Your child is actually a pulley between you and the teacher. Most women will actually fawn over a man who is doing everything for their child. A teacher will be more interested in the learning options you allow you child to have. Simply being there for everything will perk at least a conversation with a teacher, but going the extra mile and imagining your kid doing great things is an instant attraction. A teacher is usually past the age of 25 and isn’t worried about her own dreams anymore, so she doesn’t care about personal gain. If she sees a parent who devotes their life to their child’s dream while still following their own, it’s so rare to them that it hits them hard and they find themselves talking to you without even realizing it.
Knowledge In The Same Subject
Oftentimes, the teacher will be the only one who understands her topic in-depth compared to everyone in her life. Meeting her on the same level of understanding on the same subject will generate instant attraction. Also, it’s important to know more, but act like you know less. This gives you the chance to begin an attraction tug of war that goes on for a while, and maybe even until both of you are happy in old age.
Meeting Her Standards Without Fail
This is more complex than it seems because you have to know her standards and meet them, if not exceed them, without letting her know you knew them. This actually causes a weird reaction for the teacher because it is giving them a reason to be proud of you when there shouldn’t be a reason. This feeling is confused with attraction at first, and once the teacher believes it’s attraction, it really does become attraction.
Your Child from Beginning to End
While your child begins the relationship at almost every point, they’re also the ones who close the envelope. When a relationship is going well and a child notices, they’ll begin asking questions. Your best option is to not answer and have your child go ask the teacher. This can only be done when there is an obvious attraction on both sides. Once your child starts asking the teacher questions, it snowballs until all she does is think about you. This has been known to interrupt a teacher’s way of teaching.
As you can see, in order to attract your child’s teacher you have to go through your child. After all, the teacher is all about the child, so you have to build upon this to get anywhere with her.
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