Feeling Devastated Because She Cheated on You?
Yes, She Took the Action…But Are You Partly to Blame?
Make sure you learn from it so she isn’t driven to cheat again!
This may sound crazy, but I think that being cheated on can actually be a really good opportunity for guys. Obviously you are probably not going to see it that way in the heat of the moment. However, when you have an opportunity to calm down and think it through, you will start to see the flaws in your relationship and the things that were missing.
If your partner feels the need to cheat on you, then the person who they turn to clearly has qualities which you weren’t displaying. It may not be that you don’t possess those qualities, you may have simply started to value them less as the grind of the relationship continued.
What kind of qualities are we talking about here?
There are two key qualities which guys can often benefit from developing or displaying more often. The first of these is excitement. When women cheat, it is often because the guys who they are with just doesn’t provide any excitement. Their relationship has become stale and predictable. If a guy outside of your relationship can provide some adventure and excitement, that can spark the temptation that might cause your girl to cheat on you.
The second quality which guys often don’t display often enough is appreciation. If you have stopped appreciating your girl then don’t be surprised if she starts looking for that from someone else. Women can be very sensitive at times and can easily feel unwanted. While it might be obvious to you that appreciate your girl deeply, she may not feel or experience that appreciation.
A lot of women get their validation from external sources. The men in their lives are often a rock who they can depend on – the one stable thing that never lets them down. When women no longer feel appreciated, they naturally start to question just how dependable their partners really are and are likely to look elsewhere. The less appreciated your girl feels, they more tempted she will be to cheat on you.
Don’t forget that sexual fulfillment is also very important!
OK, so excitement and appreciation are obviously two essential qualities. However, there is another common scenario that might cause your girl to cheat on you: sexual fulfillment. Do you provide spice in the bedroom? Do you excite her and satisfy her physically?
There honestly isn’t an excuse for this one because one of your major sexual goals should be pleasuring your girl. When I stopped thinking about my own sexual gratification and focused more on how to pleasure a woman, I realized that the two go hand in hand. The more you focus on pleasing your girlfriend or your partner, the more enjoyment you will get from doing so – and the more motivated she will be to pleasure you.
People don’t cheat for no reason. If your girl is tempted to be with someone else, then it is probably because she isn’t experiencing enough excitement, doesn’t feel appreciated enough, or isn’t sexually satisfied.
Maybe you don’t know what she needs as well as you thought? Is it possible that you think she is one of the eight types of women she’s not? What if she’s changed and you just didn’t update your actions based on her needs? Go figure out what you could be doing better to prevent her from cheating again in this free video. We both know what could happen if you don’t take action now…
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