Sometimes life sucks, right?
Or at least it feels like it. But what if you could pull yourself up and completely change your life? Read on to learn how…
Beautiful women have rough times too... in fact, we all do
***And when you are finished reading… please take a few seconds and share one of your dating frustrations. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
Here’s a question from a reader…
Dear Vin,
My life sucks. While I’m in college, I don’t really have much of a social life, and definitely no girlfriend. I have some friends that I talk to in class or here and there, but it seems like I don’t have anyone to hang out with. I really want to get myself a girlfriend just like all the other guys and stop feeling sorry for myself.
The more I spend in college seeing everyone having fun, enjoying themselves, and making new friends – the more I want that too, but I think to myself that it’s just out of my reach. Can you help me change my life, to turn it around? I feel like I’ve hit rock bottom here.
Ryan – Detroit
Thanks for your honest letter, Ryan. It may not feel like it right now, but there are actually some truly positive things that can come out of your situation. It’s often said that until you hit rock bottom you won’t know what real change is. It’s time for you to change your life radically. So what does that mean?
Well, there are three main areas in your life which you must focus on and which will have have a huge impact on your happiness, results in college, and success with women. In fact, these three factors are so important that you should base your entire life around them! Let’s take a closer look at them.
#1: Social skills
The first change you should make is to develop your social skills. I was at a bar recently and there was a guy who I could tell wanted to get better at social situations.Unfortunately, he had very poor social skills. He would stand very close to me at all times and follow me around. He seemed like an okay guy, but in the end I had to tell him to leave because he was so intense.
The lesson here is pretty obvious: don’t rush into social situations until you have developed some basic social awareness. Read some books about people skills and spend some time watching people interact. Observing how others act in social situations can be a powerful learning experience!
#2: Relaxation techniques
If you suffer a lot from social anxiety, then you need to practise some relaxation techniques. There are some excellent activities which can help you dissipate any stress which you may feel. Yoga is probably the best place to start. Don’t be surprised to discover that developing a flexible body will also give you a flexible mind! You could also try a weekly massage, or get a massage just before you go out on a date. It’s incredible how your stress level can drop dramatically in the space of just a few minutes!
#3: Social groups
One of the best ways to make more friends and meet more women is by joining social groups. For example, if you like a particular sport then sign up for a team. I strongly recommend team sports since they are an excellent way to advance your social development. Not only will you make friends, but you will also be challenged physically and mentally. That is exactly what you need right now!
If sports don’t interest you much then join any number of other clubs, whether it’s stamp collecting, music, or dancing. It doesn’t matter how obscure or popular it is. If you find it interesting, join a group and use every opportunity that it provides you to socialize. Social skills are like muscles. If you don’t exercise them then they will atrophy. By following these three steps you will be amazed at how you can change your life for the better!
***Remember: Please share one of your dating questions in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer your comment personally.
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