Become A Better Player by Changing Your Mindset.
Your ultimate goal is to make a real connection
When he asked if I would like to sit on his lap and talk about the first thing that popped up, I was excited for a moment - but then he smiled like Chris Kattan and all I could think about was “Baby Don’t Hurt Me.”
It wasn’t the smile that killed the deal… I find that when guys try too hard to act like a player, then what generally happens is that the girl is able to sense that he’s overcompensating for something. Girls know when a guy is sincere and honest, and can spot a fake a mile away. Guys need to improve their self-confidence in order to improve their dating skills.
When I went through my development there was a point in my game where girls would call me out for being a player and so when I think in terms of my development, it was probably a good sign that I was called out. When I first started working on my skills with girls, the last thing that I wanted them to think is that I was a player.
So it’s not a completely negative thing if a girl calls you out on being a player. It’s usually an indication that your coming off a little too gamey, that you’re lacking that genuineness in your interactions. For me it’s like a bridge that shows a sign that someone’s improved, but it also is an indication that there’s a lot of development left to go. There are a couple of things to change in your mindset, if you find you are being called out for being a player.
The first is just being more genuine with your interactions.
Don’t feel like you need to try and impress girls. Instead, go out of your way to find what’s impressive about the girls you want to meet. If you play more to her than into yourself, you will go further with impressing her, and possibly winning her approval and getting a date. Girls aren’t into guys who aren’t genuine in their thoughts and actions.
The second thing that you may want to play around with is to call her out on being a player first.
This will make the interaction more playful and relaxed. If you can make a woman smile early in the game you two are playing, you have a better chance of getting to know her. A smile is a good indication that a girl likes you, and your company. Laughter is good medicine, and is a great thing to have on dates. If she smiles, then she will be more open to talking and giving both of you the chance to learn about each other.
The final part of the topic is changing a girl’s mindset.
When we deal with changing a girl’s mindset, it’s important that we focus on changing their emotions rather than changing their minds. If we can actually change a girl’s emotions, her mind will follow. If you’re able to get a girl to change her emotion and then her mind follows, maybe you’ll feel a little bit more like a player.
You should be doing it from the point of building an authentic connection. The more real you are to the girl when you are playing the player’ game the better chance you have of making a real connection with her. Change your mindset to make this your number one priority and then let the games begin, because they will actually be more enjoyable for the both of you.
By now you’re ready to discover the 3 powerful questions that will allow you to easily hack into her mind, quickly learn her subtle seduction sequence, and create a game plan to guarantee she’ll go home with you tonight. Warning: You know moves this powerful can’t be unleashed to the general public, only the real players at heart, so go get them before you lose out on your last chance to become a player.
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