In this article, I am going to reveal a couple of key traits that a real man has that you can easily employ into your own life. Want to know how to be a real man? Listen up!
There are numerous characteristics of a real man, but becoming a real man does not mean growing a big beard, fighting crocodiles, hunting animals with a club, or getting a large muscular physique. It goes a lot deeper than that.
You can become a real man and enjoy the level of attraction that a real man gets, and also the success in life you deserve. Just learn the characteristics that help typical alpha males to score.
The definition of a real man…
So, the good thing about a real man is he has a kind of naturally alluring quality about him that women can pick up on and any job that he goes to or any new people that he meets will notice. He is instantly a lot more attractive and alluring than just your standard average kind of guy. In this article, I am going to reveal the characteristics that set out a real man from just an ordinary man. There’s much more to being a real man than muscles!
Tip one – Control yourself…
To be a real man, you need self-control. Real men demonstrate high levels of self-control and make a regular habit of examining the motives of their faults and actions. When, through self‑examination, they find it necessary to correct their course, they have the strength and discipline to do so.
A great example that I saw on TV of a real man is the Donald Draper character in the Mad Men series. Donald lives his life as quite a haunted individual, and it does not matter what is going on in his life or all the negative things that are happening around him and the pressures that he is feeling, he is still able to walk into a meeting and be cool, calm and blow his clients away with an amazing presentation. He is also able to be almost unshakable when people challenge him.
Tip two – Be brave!
A great quote that sums up bravery is by Mark Twain: “Bravery is not the absence of fear, rather it is fear being mastered.” A real man will feel fear and will push past that fear and still push to achieve his goals in life.
Conquering that fear is what makes him brave. A real man who is brave is not scared to put his heart on the line even if knows he might get hurt. He is not afraid to take a big risk even if he knows it could all just go tits-up.
He is not afraid to put himself out there when meeting a girl, even though he knows there is a chance that he may get rejected. That bravery and that ability to go past this fear is what makes him stand out from every other guy and what gives him unshakable confidence and success in life.
Tip three – Persistence…
Perseverance is a product of self-control. It is courageous resistance against difficult circumstances. Perseverance is only developed through trials. Real men endure the trials and emerge stronger. They never give up.
Even when the odds are against them, even if a girl is giving them nothing, even if they have been rejected ten times, they keep going back, and they keep pushing themselves to get better and achieve more success. In fact, in life, the difference between a millionaire to just a standard office worker out there is not intelligence.
It is not luck. It is purely the ability that that millionaire or billionaire has to be persistent through tough times and believe that one day he is going to achieve amazing things, and he can withstand all the negatives and the rejections that will come his way.
Tip Four – Confidence…
Real men are confident. Many people confuse confidence with arrogance and self‑centeredness. Real men know the difference. Confidence is about being self-assured and self‑aware. Confident men have faith in their ability and knowledge. They do not need to tear others down in order to build themselves up.
They earn people’s trust with their radiant inner strength. When they walk into a room, everyone seems to notice. When I look at developing more confidence, I look at it this way. The more I can push past my fears in life, the more I can be braver. The more persistent I can be and relentless in achieving my goals, the more confidence points I am going to have in my life.
I like to imagine that I have a tally of points, and every time I do something that pushes past my fears in some way, that tally adds up, and the more that adds up, the more confidence I am going to have in life.
Tip 5: Simply Get started!
Now you know the qualities of a real man, so you can become one! Start thinking about how you can become a real man by having more self-control, by being braver, by being more persistent, and by having more confidence. Give yourself an honest rating against each of these points and think about where you are currently at, and think about where you want to go and how you can get there. In no time, you will enjoy the benefits of being a real man and becoming a naturally attractive individual.