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How do you approach dating chat?
One of the things that’s particularly important with online chat, is that dating chat rooms already have a fun, flirty, and playful subtext to them. You are already in a good place. Rather than waiting to find out if a girl is interested in you, get into the headspace of assuming attraction. Know that you are a great guy and assume that if you talk to a girl for long enough, she is going to recognize that as well. If you assume attraction, you will not wait for a window of opportunity to present itself. You’ll actually force the woman to open up – a great starting point.
Always going forward
In terms of how you go from starting a conversation with a girl using online chat and then move that conversation towards a more sexual place, follow the basic model of platonic, personal, and then sexual. When you first start talking with her, you need to connect. Talk about basic platonic things: “hey, how are you doing?” “How has your day been?” “What have you been up to since we last caught up?” The thing with platonic level conversations and face-to- face interaction, is you have about a minute to two before that interaction starts to go stale. Therefore, if you don’t have the ability to escalate and move things to a more personal level, you’re only going to have about a minute of good conversation with a girl.
Online dating chat rooms are the same. People don’t want to be stuck too much on platonic level conversations, in a chat room that’s supposedly designed for things that are more intense than “how was your day?”. If you can move a girl to a more personal conversation level, where you both start revealing a little bit more about yourselves, that will help her stay interested in you, and keep her interested. Move toward talking about the exciting things you’ve been doing since you last saw her, and include lots of details about what you did. In this way, you’re actually revealing information, rather than just being superficial.
Taking it to a deeper level
You also want to talk about the emotions you felt when you did all these exciting things – if you went to the beach, give details about that, who you went with, what it was like, etc. However, you also need to talk about your feelings in relation to the beach. Tell her about how exhilarating or relaxing it was getting out on the surfboard, or feeling like you were one with nature. If you can communicate on a more emotional level, it’s going to take things to a more personal level naturally.
Taking it a sexual level
Once you have achieved an emotional connection in your online chat conversation, move it to a more sexual level. In our instant messaging scenario, you can move from platonic to personal to sexual in minutes – sometimes no more than 5 or 10 minutes. Online chat interaction is definitely quicker, because women’s defenses are usually down. When they are in the privacy of their own home, and they feel safe, women are a lot more comfortable taking a conversation to a sexual level, whereas when they are out, it is often more difficult because they feel that their friends or other people watching (including you) will judge them.
Pull the trigger!
Then, once you get your conversation to the sexual level, find out what she’s doing that night. Let her know that you’re bored, and interested in catching up. Maybe invite her to get off the online chat room and come out for a couple of drinks. Just test the waters. You can’t hurt your chances by testing, once you’ve gotten to this place with her. What if she’s busy or she cannot make it? Doesn’t matter. The fact that you are trying to escalate things will be attractive in her eyes. It is important to try, because if you don’t, the momentum you’ve built will disappear, and you’ll have to start at the bottom again.
Get into the habit of being a closer. Online chat doesn’t have to be any different than face-to-face interactions. Have a killer instinct and go for the close tonight.
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