Learn how to help her get in touch with her inner-angel…
By showing her how to express herself in a way that is sexual, but keeps her within her religious comfort zone.
Read on for some simple details…
Being sexual doesn't have to mean being sleazy.
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Own who you are.
There are guys who are Christian and dating and who consider casually sleeping with a girl to be unethical or sleazy. Sleazy is just a state of mind. Often the difference between sleazy and sexy is whether the guy is willing to take ownership of his intent. If we’re talking about a guy who has come from a strong religious programming, he’s probably been told from a very early age that sex outside of marriage and casual sex in general are bad things. It can be a challenge for him to feel comfortable with the idea of thinking of himself as a sexual being. At the same time, it can also be a good opportunity for him to rebel and explore the world outside of his religious programming.
If you have this kind of mindset, then you need to take ownership of the fact that you are a sexual being and you do have sexual thoughts about women that you want to explore. This is the first step towards being able to see things as being more sexual rather than sleazy.
When we’re talking about dating Christian girls, I find that for me that’s an easy situation. Just like men in similar situations, they have often been repressed sexually from a very early age and they’ve been taught to think that any sort of sexual desires that they have or thoughts that they have sexually make them a bad person.
Understand your shadow.
Carl Jung came out with a philosophy called The Shadow Principle. It suggests that every single person carries around a shadow with them. The shadow is all of our repressed thoughts, all of our darkest desires and all of our most sexually perverted thoughts. The good news is that everyone has them, even Christian women. Sometimes Christian women have even more of them just because of the nature of their repression. As humans, the more that we are forced to repress our sexual thoughts, to avoid taking full ownership of them and to not acknowledge them, the more they grow within our shadow. It’s almost like a storm that’s brewing beneath the surface.
When you are dating a Christian girl, communicate with her and let her know that it’s okay to be in touch with her shadow. Tell her that it is okay to acknowledge that part of her personality and to get in touch with that part of her personality. She needs to know that it is a completely natural component of human instinct.
Then when she does go to that place and she feels like you’re not going to judge her for going there, it will actually become that much easier for you to be able to seduce her. She will already be in that sort of mindset. She will understand that it is part of her natural instinct for her to be seduced in that way.
Let her shine.
I’d focus on more than trying to get a Christian girl into a sexual state by removing the road block that is preventing that from shining through. Whether we are talking about Christian guys who are being a little bit more repressed or about trying to get together with Christian girls who are being repressed, this principle of getting them in touch with their shadow can help. They will find that it’s less sleazy and more of an intense sexual experience.
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