If you are dating a Christian, make sure you respect her values
Dating Christian girls can sometimes feel a little awkward for guys who aren’t particularly religious…but it doesn’t have to be that way.
Always be respectful.
The first and most important piece of Christian dating advice that I can share is that you have to understand her values and be very respectful of them. Learn about what she is willing to do and what she is uncomfortable with. Don’t compromise her values and put her in a position where she feels like she has to choose between you or God (if she is very religious, then it should be pretty obvious who will end up getting picked!)
This really isn’t rocket science. Just talk with her about her religion. It is obviously something that is very prominent in her life so find out what drew her to it in the first place. Ask about her religious experiences and what keeps her faith so strong.
What if there are things you can’t agree on?
You aren’t going to agree on everything when you are in a relationship, especially if you and your partner have different religious priorities. The only way to work things out is by finding a middle ground. I definitely don’t think that you should expect your partner to change to suit you or vice versa.
Set some boundaries and be clear about how far you are willing to go for your beliefs and how far she is willing to go for hers. I strongly recommend that you and your partner agree on some Christian dating rules so that neither of you gets hurt. With some clear boundaries and sensible rules, the two of you can enjoy a great relationship without either of you being put into a compromising position.
What about sex?
If your girlfriend is very religious then she will probably be more conservative in the bedroom since she will have grown up with conservative principles and values. She may not even want to explore any sexual intimacy with you.
Obviously this is something that you need to be very understanding of. If you really love her then show her that you are patient. Demonstrate that you are willing to wait for her and that you respect her religious values.
If you feel pressured, turn to your Christian network…
Christian couples can sometimes feel pressured by the media and everyone around them to do things that they aren’t ready to do or which they don’t believe in. Having strong values and religious faith can certainly help, but we all have basic human urges and dealing with these can be difficult.
I think that one of the best things which Christian couples can do is to turn to other Christian couples for support. You can meet them at your local church groups or on Christian forums. Spending time with like-minded people can be very helpful since they may be experiencing some of the same difficulties and challenges which you are going through.
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