Christian guys have more conflict with dating and relationships then any other group of men.
They often feel lost right because they want to explore the world of dating, but remain faithful to their upbringing and belief system. Are you dating as a christian, and wondering if it’s possible to combine both dating and religion?
Are you a Christian and having the same conflict? How have you dealt with christian dating? Please leave your comments in the box below. I read each and every one and will respond personally.
When guys have a strong religious upbringing they feel that if they go out and try to improve their dating life, it might be counter-productive and go against their religious faith and beliefs. This is where they are conflicted, and will remain conflicted unless they can learn to look at dating differently.
If you approach meeting women from the right mindset and the right head-space, it is 100% congruent to a lot of Christian beliefs. Meeting more women, improving your dating life, and even having sex with women is all about becoming a better person. In reality, isn’t that what religion is all about? Becoming a better person?
Dating involves all three dynamics; emotional, physical, and spiritual.
The big focus, whether you are a Christian or not, has got to be working on becoming more attractive as a person physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Getting out there and building a lifestyle that attracts women into your life will make more women want to be a part of your life.
Your lifestyle is like a magic carpet; it’s something that women can hop on and be transported to a new reality. If you look at your current lifestyle right now; is it a magic carpet ride that women are going to want to jump on and be blown away? Is your life so enticing that it will excite them and give them a vision of what their life could potentially be if they were involved in life with you?
If it’s not, then this is a great place for you to start. Work on becoming more active by fitting more activities into your day. Work on building your social circles, find hobbies that you enjoy, and become ambitious about attacking goals. These are the sorts of things that will naturally attract women into your life.
Start becoming comfortable in every day social environments.
This doesn’t have to mean approaching women at the bar. You just need to be more social. You want to become better at your conversation skills in general. You want to be able to talk in statements and be able to listen to what people are saying. You want to be able to respond correctly and relate your own experiences.
Christian dating men want the same thing as non-Christians. You want to be able to relate to women, be attractable to women, and be able to date comfortably and be successful at it. You also want to be able to reach your career goals and be successful in life. Having effective communication skills will help you within your religion in terms of being able to better connect with people in general.
A big part of becoming better with women is just becoming better at life, and that’s something that all men want, Christian and non-Christian alike. Being a Christian is all about love. Isn’t that what dating is for? To fall in love and live happily ever after? Christian guys and dating is all about being who you are and what you are. The conflict should end there.
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