If you’re a Christian guy, you already know that you’ve got to be careful how you open doors online…
One slip of the mind or mouth can lead to a temultuous slip to your heart’s relationship with Jesus.
You need to know what the girls on Christian dating sites are looking for, and what you’ll need to do to survive this experience…
Step one: Make some changes to your lifestyle
One important value for Christians is to continue developing and create a better life for the future in Christ. Online dating can help you to do this, and one of the best dating tips is to create a profile that shows you in a positive and honest light. There’s normally one main scenario where single Christians are unsuccessful through online dating, and that’s if the reality a woman experiences when meeting a man doesn’t line up with the expectations she had based on his profile.
So, if you feel like there are not enough unique characteristics about you to make you stand out, consider creating a more attractive lifestyle. It is baby steps. Get out and join a sports club, or take up a new hobby. Start hanging around different people to gain a different perspective on life. Not only can it be a great icebreaker for a first face-to-face meeting, but it can also boost your chances of finding someone offline.
Step two: Don’t just meet the expectations of others, think of what you need
Be clear about what you are looking for, and have an idea of the types of girls that you want to bring into your life. It says a lot about the quality of a person when they have standards, particularly when a guy makes those standards clear. You will also shape girls into responding in a certain way.
If you are looking for a girl who is fun and playful and doesn’t take herself too seriously, make sure you are detailed when filling out your profile. Talk about the people you would like to meet. That said, do bear in mind that it won’t help you to be too specific – the perfect woman could glance at your profile but move on because you’ve been too narrow!
Step three: Don’t be too picky
As we mentioned in step two, it’s great to have your own idea of what Christianity dating should be. I think a lot of guys, when they get involved with online dating, look through the profiles of single girls available and feel like they are at the store, picking their favorite.
At the end of the day, girls on an online dating site get approached by a lot of guys. They could get anywhere from 20 to 100 messages per day. If you are only handpicking one or two girls that you want to try to set up a date with, the chances of them responding to you positively are going to be a little limiting. You are going to be hampering yourself. Be OK with the idea of messaging around 10 girls a day, and that way, even if you only get a 10% conversion rate you are still going to get one girl each day to respond to.
When it comes to using a Christian date site for the first time, it’s no wonder you will want tips on dating. However, by taking your time, and trying to socialize with a wide range of like-minded people, it won’t be long before you join the list of happy Christian couples.
And once you’ve finally reached that stage where you’re ready to take it to the next step you’ll want to know the three powerful questions you must ask her–
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