Compliments
There are three general categories of compliments that work really good with girls and women.
I don’t want to give you any specifics because if I was to give you specific compliments, you memorized them, and then you went to say them to girls, it’s probably going to do more harm than good. That’s not what a confident and attractive guy does.
I’d rather give you some guiding principles and topics, so you can get inspired to make your own compliments. I want to encourage you to actually build your confidence, build your self-believe, and learn to trust yourself because that’s where it’s really at.
If you want to become a natural with women then you’ve simply got to become a guy that can think of his own answers and trust in them, instead of always searching externally for everything.
Complimenting a woman can work in your favor
Number One Compliments Principle: Compliment Her Character
What do I mean by character?
This is pretty much who she is personality-wise and person-wise. This has to do with her values, her principles, her character traits and personality traits.
Girls love to be called stuff like loyal, high self-esteem, diligent, an action taker, and happy. Most of the compliments I give are character based.
Anything positive about her character is going to be a compliment she really likes. It’s going to affect her and its going to cause her to be attracted to you because you’re going to leave a little bit of a stamp in her mind.
She’s going to associate you with really good feelings, because everybody likes to be complimented on their character. These are the sorts of compliments women love.
The Second Compliments Principle: Her Identity
Women make a lot of effort to express their identity.
When women buy clothes they often dress in a certain way and only buy clothes from a certain store because they want to express their personality in a certain way.
You often won’t catch a girl dead in clothes that are in conflict with her identity. Girls seem to be a lot more obsessed with being authentic and conveying their natural identity than guys are. Anything that compliments her identity is going to be a winner.
Say I meet a girl and she’s wearing black clothes, you can tell she’s into rock, and she’s got a bit of an identity of a hipster or indie chick you want to compliment her on this. You want to notice her identity and what makes her unique and how she’s got a place in the world. You want to compliment her on that.
Number 3 Compliments Principle: Her Looks
A lot of guys say don’t compliment a girl on her looks, but this is actually very effective... if you do it right.
The biggest mistake you can make with complimenting a girl on her looks is being generic and just saying something that every other guy would say such as “you’re hot”, “nice tits”, or “I’d like to tap that”.
Those don’t really work.
What you want to do is sometimes call a girl beautiful or notice a specific feature about her appearance.
These sorts of compliments are usually well received.
Maybe it’s her posture or her body language or maybe it’s her style of how she dresses or maybe she has a beautiful face. Don’t expect though for compliments to be a direct arrow to her heart – give compliments because you want to give them, not to get a certain result.
It’s very good to compliment a girl on her appearance as long as you do it in a genuine way, you’re specific and you give her something that is true and real.
You don’t want to fall in the trap of saying something that might seem like you just said to every other girl out there. Don’t give the same compliments to each and every girl.
What you want to do is really hit the spot with a focused, personalized compliment that really knocks her off her feet.
Make sure to quickly continue the conversation onto something else, if you started off with a compliment.
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