What’s killing your ability to talk to women? Is it what you say? How you say it?
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The first thing I’d be focusing on is my mindset, when I’m actually going in for the conversation. A lot of guys have it in their heads already that whatever they say isn’t going to be received well.
As much as I’d like to give you some golden icebreakers for women and conversations, if you go in with that kind of mindset, pretty much anything you do will more than likely fail. The first thing we really need to change is the mindset we go in with.
We want to go in knowing that whatever we say, we are confident that it’s going to be taken well. It’s important that when we engage in a conversation, that we have an expectation that people are going to respond to us. If you go into the conversation with the natural assumption that someone is going to respond and engage you in the conversation, then that is exactly what is going to happen most of the time.
I’m wondering how important the actual initial icebreaker is. Does that make a difference to her, and if it does, is that easy to overcome if you show that you can actually build a conversation?
The initial icebreaker is really about just getting into the interaction. It’s not going to make or break you, necessarily, but it can definitely be done in a way that can speed things along a lot quicker. For instance, if you go in direct and it goes well, you’ve already shown and interest and the ability to escalate things more rapidly is available to you.
Now, that doesn’t mean that that’s always the best way to do things. I’d say, what you really want to be focusing on is just simply saying something that’s nice, punchy and straight to the point. Say something that can easily be picked up on and is a little bit engaging, too.
I’m wondering how well simple things can work, like just saying, “Hi.” Can I just go up and say hi and introduce myself and ask for a woman’s name?
Yeah, absolutely. It comes back to that first point about the mindset. If you go in expecting a response and you go in acting as if everything is going to work out, then more than likely, the reality will reflect that. To be honest, if you can’t think of anything better to say, then “Hi” is definitely your best option. There have been plenty of times where I’ve started an interaction and it’s gone perfectly well, just saying hi to a woman.
Especially in a nightclub environment, you’ll find yourself engaging in conversations most likely with groups or mixed groups. An important skill to have is simply to be able to engage in groups so that you can eventually win them over. The idea is to be able to go after the girl and the group that you might be interested in.
Becoming someone who’s very good at noticing what’s going on in the environment, noticing situational opportunities to act upon, can be a great way to start a real fluid, smooth interaction with a group of people. Sometimes, in the beginning, it is good to be a good listener too!
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