Conversation with Women and How to Deal with the Fear of Failure
How do they start a conversation with a woman, and make it great is one of the most frequently asked questions I get from men? They ask: How to start conversation with women, how do I keep a conversation going, how do I make it interesting, and how do I avoid awkward pauses?
Allow you mind to be open when initiating a conversation with a woman
When I get these types of questions, I try to understand why these questions are even being asked. In other words, is there something below the surface causing these guys a problem when starting a conversation with women? Unless the core issue is addressed, the problem will always remain for them. Conversation problems are often caused by deeper issues. Solving these issues will make speaking to women much easier and problem free. Pressure and fear of failure are the two most common issues that prevent men from having great conversations with women.
Pressure:
Some men can speak will with others, but not to women they have an interest in. In these scenarios, the pressure of having a conversation with women causes a guy to make mistakes, say something wrong, or prevents him from expressing himself in the way he wants. Pressure is usually caused by the fear of failure.
Fear Of Failure:
How do you deal with failure when you say something wrong, or sound stupid? What happens? What goes on in your mind? How do you react? Do you pick yourself up and try again, or do you dwell on the failure? Do you let the failure hold you back from giving it another go?
How you react to a failure is extremely important. For example, I learned to surf later than most men learned. I fell off my board more times than I can even count, but I didn’t care. Falling was a part of the learning process. I didn’t let a fall make me angry or frustrated. The same approach should be taken when having a conversation with women. If you fail, don’t let it get you down. Get back up on that board and try again. Failure is part of learning from your mistakes, and we all make them. Just don’t let it get you down, or you have failed before you even got started.
Many guys expect that they must have a perfect conversation. I suspect they also feel that they have to be perfect in everything they do. They don’t see mistakes as being a part of the learning process. Failure is then blown all out of proportion. If you are one of these guys, think about the answers to the following questions. What can you learn about yourself? What can you do to change your perception of failure from something that is negative to something that is positive?
- Do you see failure as an important part of the learning process?
- Do you see failure as an important part of stepping outside of your comfort zone?
- Do you resist the idea of failure?
- Do you try to avoid failure at all costs?
- How do you learn from failure?
- What is your tolerance for failure?
- When you make mistakes (or conversations go bad), how do you turn the situation into a positive?
- How do you learn from failure so that it helps you in the future?
- What effect does failure have on you?
You must view failure as a normal part of living; it’s just part of the long learning process of life. If you want to have great conversations with women, then you need to practice. Making mistakes is part of learning; not learning from your mistakes is part of failure. Get used to failing; it will happen from time to time. The more experience you have, the better you will get.
View failure as a normal part of the learning process. If you want to have great conversations with women, then you need practice. You will make many mistakes along the way; so get used to failing, it will happen. The more experience you have, the better you will get. The better you get, the better your conversations with women will also get. It’s a win-win situation.
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