Would you like to know the best way of convincing a girl to go out with you? Want to know where you’re going wrong? This article will give you the guts to straight-out ask a girl out and to get a girl to want you.
Perhaps there is this one girl that you really like, you are thinking about her all the time and she’s giving you signals. How could you possibly ask her out with the highest chance of success?
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Get yourself a game plan
I remember when I was at school and there was this girl that I really liked. I thought about asking her out and I ran through the situation over and over again in my mind. When I finally plucked up the courage to ask her out, it just came out so stifled and muffled. I think she even had trouble understanding what the hell I was saying.
I want to give you a bit of a game plan so you can ask your love interest out without making my mistake. The best thing about learning how to ask a girl out is that it’s a skill you can use for the rest of your life.
Guys who are very comfortable asking a woman out, risking rejection and giving it a go, live their life in a very different way than a guy who is constantly questioning himself about asking a woman out. Ultimately, it all comes down to you.
I am constantly seeing guys doing things wrong when they ask a girl to go out with them. The first thing I see a lot is begging. These guys are practically sitting on the street with a can in front of them asking for loose change. He does not think he has a chance, he tries too hard and he ends up being far too agreeable.
The second thing I see is guys asking for permission instead of just telling her what they want to do. Asking for permission makes you look timid and weak – and a woman wants someone who will sweep them off their feet.
The third thing I always see is guys doing wrong is simply waiting too long to ask. You can’t wait too long! Get in there while you have the chance, before she moves on.
Below, you’ll find the very best tips to get a girl to like you – this is your game plan. There are three easy steps you can take to convince a girl to go out with you.
Tip 1: The sooner you do it the better
Asking a girl out quickly is better than using the most perfectly prepared line a week later. The faster you can do it, the better it is going to be. As the old saying goes; strike while the iron is hot. I have often asked girls out in the first two minutes I have spoken to them. This makes you confident and takes the pressure off you.
The earlier you can get this out of the way and show interest and ask her out, the better.
Tip 2: Use more statements than questions
Saying something like ‘we should go grab something to eat’ is much better than ‘would like to grab something to eat with me?’
You want to be just a little bit bossy without being controlling. Women will often be pretty good at going along with you if you can use a certain amount of authority. The moment you give them too much choice, they will often say no.
Get in the habit of saying more statements rather than asking too many questions. I remember when I was in school, I usually asked a girl; would you like to gout with me? I cannot think of something worse to say than that. I encourage you to give more directions and use more statements and assume she is going to go with you, as opposed to asking every time.
Tip 3: Don’t get hurt and be ready to move on
Do not fall into the trap of liking the same woman for too long. That is an easy way to ruin your life. I had one student where I got him to fill up glasses of water and pour them down the sink. This represented every month of his life that he wasted on women that did not like him. It was very scary for him to see his entire life going down the drain, wasting time being attracted to women that he literally had no chance with.
I encourage you to have a sense of ruthlessness about you in your ability to ask a woman out, accept the yes or no and then be able to move on very quickly. If you are someone who is a lot softer and more sensitive and gets hung up on girls that do not like you, then you are really asking to be unhappy for a large part of your life. Dating is the search for your soul mate, after all.
So remember: be bossy without being controlling, be quick and don’t get too hung up over women who don’t treat you right. Be confident and happy with yourself, and you’ll soon be on your way to finding your soul mate.
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