Have you been wondering how you got that hottie until recently, when suddenly you discover that she’s crazy?
What do you do?
I’ve been there, trust me. It feels good to walk with her down the street, but unfortunately, when you get her alone, she’s a little crazy. She does stuff that annoys you. You decide, for now, that you’re going to tolerate it because she’s hot, but you’re a little bit stumped. Can you turn her around? Can you get her to settle down and just be a little bit normal?
Unfortunately, if you’re at this point, it’s really hard to change things. It’s not simple to go about changing your girlfriend, or dealing with crazy women in general. It’s possible, but it does take a little bit of experience and a lot of practice. What you need to do is either take advantage of her craziness or learn to shape a girl better right from the beginning of the relationship.
Taking advantage of her love…
The great thing about crazy girls is they usually have an incredible and insatiable sexual appetite. I’ve had many crazy girlfriends over my lifetime, however, I always made it clear what the relationship was about.
I kept things purely on a sexual level. I did this by keeping my distance in the first six weeks of seeing her. I would never go out of my way to see her more than once or twice a week. And when we did have sex, I would keep a little distance between us immediately after. I didn’t want her to get too emotionally attached.
You have to be careful here, because crazy girls are usually crying out for that level of appreciation and attachment. So, if you cave in and become a little bit cuddly with her after sex, she’ll latch on. It’s not that you want to be cold or heartless, but just that you don’t want to lead her astray right from the start. This will save her pain in the long-term, and she’ll appreciate it because she’ll still be excited by the opportunity of being your sexual goddess.
What if you want to stay with her?
But, what if you want to stay with her? If you want to stay with her, I have to caution you. It won’t be easy. But, it is possible. The key is that you need to let her know what type of behavior you’re willing to tolerate. You’re also going to have to do this in a creative and intelligent way.
If you directly state what you will and won’t tolerate, this will trigger a rage inside her that will prevent her from having a rational conversation. Instead, you need to talk directly to her subconscious. You need to train her in the same way you would train an over-excited puppy. You reward her for good behavior and punish her for bad behavior.
Sounds a bit brutal? It’s necessary!
Not at all. Besides, do you constantly want to be think, “My girlfriend is driving me crazy”? One of a girl’s greatest needs is to please her man. So, you just need to communicate to her what it is that pleases you and what doesn’t. And you do this by using your attention. You reward positive behavior by giving her your attention, maybe complimenting her more or giving her more physical touch.
But, anytime she starts to head down to crazy-town, you need to withdraw your attention. It should feel like she’s being thrown out in the dark shadows. She’ll feel this instantly and want to get your attention and approval back.