Stop worrying and ask her out already!
Oh, you want a plan first so you know WHAT to ask her out for. IF she’s as hot as you think she is–she’ll expect more than dinner.
Here’s a list of places to take women that blow dinner out of the water–so she’ll want to keep seeing you.
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Type #1 – Relaxed and Indoors
I think cocktail bars and lounges should be number one on that list, and I say this for two reasons. The first is that it’s already a little bit of a relaxed setting – it’s a setting where a girl can feel a little more comfortable, and feel a bit more sexual because it’s not quite so formal.
Usually those types of places are just a little better at creating the right type of mood. They might have some more comfortable lounge-type seating arrangements; they might have a little bit of light ambient music in the background; and the lighting is generally a little bit dimmer as well.
I think that can be a great way to set up a first date, while conveying to the girl that it’s a casual date, and that you’re also pacing the initial parts of the relationship. Even if guys are looking to get into an exclusive relationship and find a girlfriend, usually you’re better off starting that process by just keeping things light, playful, and casual. In other words, giving the two of you an opportunity to actually get to know each other, and decide whether you do want to enter into an exclusive relationship or not. That’s the first option.
Type #2 – Active and Fun
Option number two is to do some sort of an activity. You’ve got to be careful here because if the activity is too intense or too fun, then the date becomes more about the activity and less about the two of you. However, there are some really good examples that I would suggest, such as going mini-golfing, going ice-skating, going rock climbing, or even to an arcade where you can have a lot of fun doing all of these different activities.
You can basically use the activity you’re doing to fill in the blanks; which takes a little bit of the pressure off when you might otherwise feel like you have to constantly be in conversation. Once again, think about the frame that’s being set and the type of mood that she’s going to be in when she’s doing these types of activities – it’s going to be a fun, playful, and relaxed one.
Type #3 – At One With Nature
The third option for a date is something to do with nature. So whether it be a picnic at a park, just going to the beach for a swim, grabbing some fish and chips, or whether it will actually be going out and doing something like hiking or sightseeing; anytime women are connected to nature, they go to a place where they’re relaxed and comfortable. It’s far easier for them to be able to connect to you on such a date because they’re already connected to their surroundings.
So if guys stick to those three types of dates as a starting point, and then branch out; they’re going to have a lot more success than with something clichéd and formal like a list of top ten restaurants that they could go to.
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