There seems to be a trend that guys get involved when they pick up women, and they focus their attention on talking only to attractive women. Why is this a bad way of approaching women? How much more can they appeal to women, if they’re more talkative and social throughout their whole day?
If you do want to be that guy who gets all the girls, that has women chasing you, has a bunch of different girls sending text messages saying, “Hey, let’s meet up,” the best way to do this and the simplest way is to be an excellent communicator.
How do you become an excellent communicator, how do you be somebody who is really good at expressing himself in an interesting way? That is how to be more social. Pay close attention to you and whoever you’re with and their body language. Pay close attention to this, and be a very good listener.
One, be more social. Two, pay close attention to body language. Three, be a good listener. If you want to get better at dating, you need to understand people a lot better.
You need to understand that the better you are at communicating, the more practice you have and the more interactions you have, the better you get, the easier these things will become. We are surrounded by people. They’re everywhere. As soon as you walk out in the street, there are so many people. It is a perfect training place and a perfect place to practice.
The first thing that I would like you to do and which will help you tremendously, is to go out today, or the next time you have some free time, and talk to ten random strangers. It could be anybody. Guys, girls, it doesn’t matter, because what you’re trying to do is that you’re trying to improve our communicating skills.
You’re not trying to pick up girls. You’re not trying to do any scripts or lines but just talk to a random stranger. You’ll actually find that the more people you talk to, the more you will realize that people are actually nice and that people are very similar to you.We all just live in different places. It’s quite a beautiful thing, and you will improve your communication skills as well.
Now that you’re practicing more with speaking to random people, it’s important that you do not just go off after the most attractive girl in the club, or the most beautiful girl and try to pick her up. Ideally, you want her to pick you up. You want her to be the one to be the one that is saying, “Why isn’t he coming over and talking to me?” You talk to all her friends. You talk to all the other girls except the one that you want.
How can you take advantage of a situation, so that more girls are coming up to you? How can you basically draw them into you, so that it’s easier for you?
Be a flirt. It’s important to be a flirt because not enough guys are flirts. You know a flirt when you see a flirt. Flirts are fun. Flirting is so much fun because it’s light and bubbly and it’s vibrant and it’s lively.
When you’re flirting, you really are having fun, feeling good and just enjoying the moment. If you’re doing this, you can do this to anyone. I don’t just flirt with women, I flirt with guys. I’m not gay. I flirt with children. I’m flirting with teachers, anybody.
What I say and what I mean when I say flirt is that I’m just playing around with my body language, I’m playing around with words, I’m teasing, I’m pulling, I’m pushing, I’m expressing myself in a way that makes us want to laugh. It makes us both smile. That’s sharing something.
A great little thing that you can do the next time that you are in a setting where there are women, implement your Attraction Code. Choose women that you would like to attract, you’d like to pick up or whatever you want to call it, and challenge yourself to flirt with five random people. How do you know you’re flirting? You’re flirting when you’re both laughing. It’s as simple as that, just five people.
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