Like a cat playing with a mouse… dating a cougar can be fun and exciting.
There can be certain benefits to dating or picking up a cougar. Getting a little bit of experience and then focusing on meeting or dating a cougar can be a great way to enhance your skills – especially your sexual repertoire. The benefit of dating a cougar is that she tends to have a very strong sense of her sexual identity. Sex isn’t really a big deal for her as she understands that sex is an everyday occurrence in life. On top of that, she has a lot of sexual experience. For guys who do not have much sexual experience, learning how to pick up older women can be a great way to learn a lot of new and exciting skills, and become a much better and more educated lover.
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Experience doesn’t matter…
Guys should not be worried if they aren’t as experienced as she is. Lets face it, most aren’t. It can be attractive for her that she is teaching you, and for her it’s a big turn-on. The biggest appeal that a cougar woman has in relation to a younger man is the fact that young men have stamina and can keep going for a long time. Sure, you might run the risk of not knowing what to do, but the fact that you keep going will appeal to her increased level of sexual appetite.
There are differences when you date a cougar, here are some cougar dating tips that you need to keep in mind.
It is important to realize that a cougar is really past her prime. Hence, one of the key points would be to show her that you really appreciate her as a beautiful sexual creature and that she’s desired. Putting an emphasis on this can be very attractive to a cougar. The other aspect to this is that her sexual identity is quite solid and well-rounded. So if you’re a guy who isn’t too comfortable being sexual, or showing sexual interest; then this is probably going to hamper your abilities to find a cougar and date her. There are ways that a guy can show more interest in his older woman.
Project your sexuality
I would say that the best way to focus on this would be to get a good sense of what it takes to project your sexuality. One way to do this is to develop the ability to show a certain level of dominance. For example: to turn her around, or give her direct commands. It could even be something as simple as showing interest in her with a lot of confidence.
The idea is to generally be unafraid to touch her body in a way that is… not quite objectifying; but still shows a certain level of craving for her, and wanting to use her.
If you want a role model for picking up cougars, have a look at men from countries like Jamaica or certain African nations. These guys tend to have much more of a solid comfort when it comes to their sexuality, and they tend to be a bit harder and rougher with women. Watching them pick up can be a real eye opener for guys out there. Date a cougar and see for yourself how rewarding the experience can be.
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