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How does an introverted guy even begin to get in on the dating scene in a way that’s going to work for him? Being an introverted guy myself we do enjoy our own company, and we often find it challenging to even just leave the house and be around other people.
If you also found yourself in the same position as I did, I would love to hear your comments below. Please feel free to share your own experiences on how you dealt with the obstacles of being an introvert.
Leaving the house is not where we’re most comfortable. So, we tend to revert to just being alone, by ourselves. We’d rather be reading a book, watching a movie, or going for a run; all things that require only one person to do.
Unfortunately, that’s not going to allow us to meet new people, especially when it comes to meeting new girls and be in a serious relationship. I have some great tips on how I overcame this obstacle myself, and would like to share them with you.
First things first, you must learn to socialize.
You need to push yourself into social situations and jump start your life. Give yourself a kick in the butt, and face that fear and that slight uncomfortableness of being in social situations. It will require you to get out of your comfort zone, but in reality, even extroverts have issues with that as well.
It’s very important that when that temptation to stay home comes, you need to realize that in a long-term perspective that’s not going to be beneficial to meeting a new girlfriend or having any type of relationship. In fact, you won’t really have a love life, because women just don’t magically appear knocking at your door.
Really make that effort to push yourself and go out and learn to be sociable. Make it a goal to go out on weekends, whether it be a Friday or Saturday night, to start accepting your social invites, and anytime that your friends call you up to go out when you’d rather be at home.
Put yourself in as many social situations as possible. When you do that you’re going to start opening yourself up to meeting new people and possibly even meeting new girls.
Stop finding excuses to remain in your world.
A very big temptation that introverted people tend to have when they’re in social situations is they have a little escape mechanism called a Smart Phone. A lot of us will get on that Smart Phone, because it makes us look busy and we don’t have to face people. It’s almost like our own little world, where we can hide away by looking into our I-Phone and it keeps us distracted.
It’s very important to put that away when you’re in a social situation and to make an effort to go and talk to people, and go and approach girls. Learn to put yourself into uncomfortable situations because in reality that’s the only way that you’re ever to grow. You’ll eventually learn to adapt, and you’ll even start meeting new people.
Once you finally push past that little point of uncomfortableness, you’ll start to feel good about yourself. If you’ve struck up a really good interaction with a girl, and you’ve actually ended up with a girl’s number, you’ll soon find yourself on Cloud 9. You’ll be so on top of the world, and be proud of yourself for leaving that comfort cocoon you’ve kept yourself in.
This will help your long-term goal of finding a partner and a relationship on down the line. It’s all about making an effort and pushing past the point of uncomfortableness. If you’re an introvert and want to get dates and find the perfect girl, you’re going to have to learn to live a bit like an extrovert and leave the comfort of your home. When that new girl is cuddled up close to you, you’ll be glad you did.
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