Even if you feel shy, you too can get out there in the dating world and seduce beautiful women too.
So many guys are just stuck in this shell where they want to be better with women, but they’re just too shy to make that first step.How do you push a guy out the door, teach him to be more seductive, and make himself more attractive when he feels shy and unsocial?
When guys talk about being shy, they’re basically saying that they lack social experience or they don’t socialize much. They have developed habits that aren’t social. Maybe they had a rough experience and backed off. Maybe they are more sensitive and haven’t found a comfortable social venue. Or maybe their parents weren’t there for them, so they don’t have a stable sense of who they are. You see, socializing is just like any muscle in our bodies; if we don’t exercise it enough, it atrophies and gets small. We just need to exercise that muscle a bit more often. Which is an inspiring thing, because it means that you can be a great socializer… you just have to start doing it.
How to start dating girls for shy guys…
So for the guy who might be shy, he should start focusing getting into more social situations. Go talk to as many people as you can. He should make it a regular habit to have small conversations with everyone he meets throughout his whole day. It doesn’t matter if it’s an old grandma, the traffic lights, the guy at the petrol station, or anyone else. Just get into that habit of being a really, really social and friendly guy who talks to everyone. You don’t really have to talk about much, either. You can start off with just asking the time, talking about the weather, or just saying hi. All these little things will really build that muscle and make it much easier to talk to girls. In no time, you will have the confidence to talk to more and more people.
Shyness could be a powerful dating weapon too…
While it’s really important to be able to talk to people, a little shyness can also be a guy’s greatest advantage when meeting women. Shy guys carry a bit of mystique and mystery. Women are typically intrigued by mysteries, so they want to see what lies beneath a shy guy’s exterior. Women see him and they want to be the one to open him up and see what is inside. When a guy gets comfortable being social and mixes that with his introverted nature, he can use his shyness as a powerful weapon to draw women into his reality.
Isn’t seduction about more than just the words you use? So many people want to be all poetic and try to woo a woman with all kinds of different weird verbal stuff. How do you go beyond the words? What are the real secrets to seduction with body language, touch, and more?
Words are definitely important, but they only make up a small part of the overall interaction and the seduction process. Men should spend more time using their body language to convey what their words can’t. Watch the hot male actors on television. Watch how they move and how they talk to convey their message. There is a lot going on there that isn’t words and you can use this to attract women. That’s especially true for when it comes to seductions for the shy guy.
One of the most intimate things a man can do to seduce a woman is to touch her.
I’m not saying for you to introduce yourself by tweaking her nipple. I’m talking about the kind of touch you use when you’re talking to someone. A guy could put his hand on her arm, touch her shoulder, and move around while he talks to a girl. The more touch and movement a man uses, the more a woman can focus on the total interaction rather than focusing too much on words. There is an escalation ladder that is helpful for keeping women comfortable as you seduce them. You want her to be as comfortable as possible, so if you progress your touches in a certain order it is easy to keep your comfortable as you seduce her.
Start subtle, like bumping her shoulder or arm.
When a man approaches a woman, he’s basically climbing through a window. He doesn’t know what he’s going to say or how he’s going to seduce her. He just knows that there’s an opening for him to start a conversation and begin seducing her. Women give off windows, too. They give men these windows of opportunity by giving signs that it’s okay to escalate things. If a shy guy can keep her engaged just by talking to her and touching her, the seduction process is definitely escalating to the next level.
The key to dating tips for shy guys…
If you learn anything today I want you to start taking action. Any action is better than no action. Some guys read way too many books and have so many ideas and strategies that they have never used in real-life. They never know if this stuff works for them or if it only works on other people. These guys make meeting women such a huge deal it can create a big wall in their mind.
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