You want to start dating girls, right?
You want to be that attractive guy that can get any girl he wants, right?
***And when you are finished reading… please take a few seconds and share one of your dating frustrations. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
Get as many women as you want.
You may have dreamed of being so attractive to women that they would approach you constantly in a steady stream and like a pharaoh, you could choose as many of them as you would like – but you aren’t ever going to be that guy without these tips.
Start by becoming a better man.
Most guys obsess over what they can do to make themselves more attractive, and that betrays an insecure attitude that will project into any interaction they have with women. Instead ask yourself, “Is she good enough for me?” Of course, part of that is creating standards and becoming a better man yourself. If you want to become so attractive that meeting and hooking up with girls becomes nearly effortless, then you have to approach this from the female perspective. That means asking yourself, “By what criteria do women judge men to be attractive?” Let’s tick off each of those boxes.
Do you know what women find attractive?
Remember, you’re not merely outlining each of those characteristics; you’re also trying to be truthful and honest in your self-assessment of whether you check those boxes or not. It sometimes even helps to ask a friend or the girlfriend of a friend to help rate you.
For starters, girls are attracted to the way a guy looks and the way he presents himself. Girls probably don’t attribute that much weight to your appearance, but it’s still very important, at least because it’s the first aspect of you as a man that she gets to experience. The lesser importance that women put on a guy’s appearance is actually advantageous for a lot of guys out there. It means that even if you aren’t the best-looking guy, you can make yourself more attractive purely by working out more and becoming fitter, dressing better, and looking more stylish overall. At the moment, you’ve got to stand in front of a mirror and honestly evaluate, “How do I look?” Give yourself an honest rating of how you currently look, even if it’s hard to do.
You want to approach this from a woman’s perspective, so think about whether women would want to be with you – purely based on your appearance. If your answer is no, then you actually have two issues to sort out: your appearance and your self-esteem. Luckily for you, by improving your appearance you will in time improve your self-esteem too and that will make dating girls immeasurably easier.
Are you fun?
The next question to ask yourself is, “Am I a cool guy to be around? Am I fun? Am I socially awkward? Would you feel comfortable bringing me to a party, to a friend’s house, or to meet your family?” Assess your capabilities in social situations, and whether you’re an enjoyable and fun guy to be around. Give yourself an honest evaluation. If you’re not, then maybe you want to think about fixing your social game up a little more, being more of a social person, and understanding social cues better. That’s one area that you might need to improve on, and we have articles specifically dedicated to improving your social skills.
Are you successful?
The other question to address is, “Am I stable? Do I have a career? Do I have ambition and drive?” Think about where you’re at this very moment. Are you stalling in your career? Do you have any passions that you’re working towards or goals that you want to succeed at? “Am I going forward, or am I just stalling? If I’m stalling, then maybe I need to be putting a little more focus of that part of my life.” Women find stable, well-to-do guys to be very attractive. Women are also attracted to passionate men who have a powerful ambition and drive in their life.
It’s also very advantageous to be able to understand women. Ask yourself honestly, “Do I get women? Do I understand them? Do I know the signs that they’re giving me? Do I know a little bit about how they think?” Being clueless will really limit the amount of success you’re going to get, because if a girl’s throwing signs at you and you’re not able to pick up on them, then you’re going to have trouble escalating the relationship further. Women tend to try and tell you things without having to actually say them.
If you can’t pick up on that, then she’s going to get bored pretty quickly. You need to have some basic understanding of how women think and the signs that they give you. We have plenty of articles dedicated specifically to understanding and interpreting the signs and signals women give out. So becoming more attractive isn’t just about one or two aspects – it’s a broad, holistic spectrum of factors that need to be improved and intergrated into your daily life. If you can manage that, you will become a very attractive man, you’ll feel better about yourself too and before you know it you will be dating girls.
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