There are some very common things that guys think women like, but in reality those guys are so wrong. Learn some surprising facts in terms of dating women and women sexuality, and what must be taught from experience.
There are common misconceptions that you MUST learn to be successful with dating and your love life in general.
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1. Women are Sexual Entities
Many men do not see girls as being sexual entities. They don’t recognize that there will be nights where a girl will go out just so she can sleep with someone. When guys start to get in their headspace and they realize there’s a high likelihood that she’s thinking about sex more often than you do through the day, it really changes their approach.
2. Girls like Direct Approaches
The second big misconception is that guys feel like if they approach a girl in a direct manner that they will somehow offend her. The whole purpose of girls putting makeup on and dressing themselves up while making sure that every little factor of their outfit matches is because she wants guys to notice and she wants that validation.
Going up and being direct with girls can actually be a real positive. It can actually stop the whole game playing approach that often goes on with girls. She will appreciate the direct honesty and attention.
3. Girls do NOT always have a Shield up
The third misconception that is supported by the pickup community is that girls have big shields up. I found when I really bought into that and I was approaching girls with this in mind, I would use sneaky tactics to try and break down their big shields that in reality most women did not even have shields up.
However, I also found that when I just focused on going up to her, saying ‘hi ‘and just being a fun and playful guy who is bringing more warmth into their world, that these apparent big shields didn’t exist. So, be real, do not go into it with any expectations that she may have a wall up or be timid. She is out there for a reason, to meet guys like you.
What you believe is what your reality is. Approaching girls and just being friendly is something that they actually welcome. You’re not impacting their night in a negative way.
4. Women are Open to Casual Relationships
The fourth big misconception that I found is that guys think that a girl won’t be open to casual relationships. They think if they have sex with a girl that that means that they’re now going to have to be in a long-term relationship. This is not true.
A lot of guys will actually screw themselves in this way because they’ll become needy because they’ll start feeling like they have to move things in a more long-term direction and be a little bit more nurturing.
Girls are very open to the idea of leading successful busy lives and having two or three casual relationships at any one time. When you recognize that it’s okay to be like that, you’ll find that girls will actually be far more likely to hook up with you ongoing.
One-night stands will be a thing of the past for you because you’ll realize that the women who are hooking up with are actually the ones you want to continue seeing. Being open to this type of relationship, your conversation rate will improve, and the entire relationship will evolve.
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