News flash: Dating tips don’t guarantee dating results!
Plus, how to avoid dating advice that can bite you in the ass.
Read on to hear how I and my clients do it…
***And when you are finished reading, please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations about dating in the comments below. I’d like to help you and I’ll be sure to answer each comment personally.
It’s awesome when you have lots of dating tips to share, and it’s fun to be able to help other guys, but this is something that you have to be careful with. A lot of guys in the “pick-up” community are so caught up with getting validation from other guys, and spend so much time giving out advice, that they aren’t actually enjoying any sex of their own.
These guys may brag and tell you that they know what is best for you, but what if they don’t? If they don’t have any results of their own, if they can’t show you that they are meeting women and getting laid, then you shouldn’t be listening to their advice on relationships! In fact, asking for dating tips from these internet know-it-alls is probably going to take you two steps backwards instead of two steps forwards. So don’t listen to these self-proclaimed dating gurus. Just do what works for you.
What should you do if someone comes to you for advice?
First of all, let’s be absolutely clear about one thing: you aren’t obliged to share dating tips. How would you feel if you saw a stranger who didn’t have a girlfriend, and wasn’t getting any sex, asking for advice from somebody else? Be honest. If it was a friend of yours then you might feel sorry for him because you KNOW him. But don’t feel like you have to help every single guy who happens to cross your path.
Assuming you do decide to help someone, what should you say? What relationship advice could you possibly give?
The best way to help him would be by increasing his confidence. Don’t even focus on women yet. Once he just starts to build a bit of confidence and self-esteem, he can get some momentum in his life as a whole. Things like women and dating will be a hell of a lot easier for him AFTER he has some confidence.
Dating advice can be a double-edged sword
Helping other people can be very gratifying, but to be perfectly honest I would caution you against giving dating tips to other guys. The moment you start doing that you will put yourself up to a lot of scrutiny – and who needs that? This isn’t supposed to be a competition, it’s supposed to be about how you can get laid.
By the same token, think twice before seeking a lot of advice from other guys. If you take a hard look at the ones who talk the most, you will usually find that they aren’t doing so well themselves. You are much better off learning on your own and discovering what works best for you.
Asking for too much advice on relationships is going to make you look like a total loser, even if you aren’t. But if you work on yourself and figure out how to get more women interested in you, then other guys are going to want to ask you for dating tips. Think carefully before you start handing out advice. Very often it simply won’t be worth your time.
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