Are you obsessed with dating a friend of yours?
You had high hopes when you first met, but landed in the friend zone.
Then that loser that you couldn’t stand to see her with… just ripped her heart out and stomped on it. As you swoop in to pick up the pieces, make sure you won’t have to do the same for yourself as you lay it all on the line.
Turn that friend into a lover...
Start turning your friend into more than a friend by being subtle.
When you’re dating a friend, first of all, you’ve got to approach it very carefully. You don’t want to lose a good friend and you want to test the waters a little bit beforehand. There are ways that you can tell if your friend feels the same about you, before you put all your chips on the table.
Try these tips to turn your friend into a lover:
- Approach this in small steps. If this was a girl that you didn’t know, you could probably take a few more risks but, because it’s a friend, you want to really take your time with this one and get a bit of a vibe if she’s interested in you.
- Be more touchy and feel-y than you normally are with her, to gauge how she responds. If she’s looking like she’s a bit awkward with you doing that, then you know she’s probably not at the stage where she wants to take the friendship any further, but if she’s initiating and looks like she’s enjoying it, then amp it up a bit more. Don’t let it get to the point where it gets awkward.
- Arrange some alone time, especially if you guys are in a friendship group where you have other common friends. Try to find an excuse where just you two can be alone and allow for more intimacy to happen, if it’s going to happen at all. That might mean asking her out for a drink one night. “Let’s just go out and have a beer — I want to catch up with someone cool.” You just give her an excuse to come out with you, just you, and it’s like a mini-date with a friend, without having to spell it out and say “this is a date.”
- Find the right time to make a move. Now, this can be a really difficult one, because you’re contemplating to yourself, “This is the decider. If this goes wrong then am I going to lose a friend? Is it going to be very awkward between us?” More than ever, you have to be sure, with this one, that she’s ready for you to make a move.
If this were just a girl you knew that you were dating and there was no friendship attachment, then you could take a few more risks but, because you are thinking about dating a friend, you’ve got to play it safe.
You’ve got to know that she is giving you enough signals to say to you that she’s ready for something to happen. She might be gazing into your eyes; she might be initiating touch; she might be really close to you, almost like she’s brushing up beside you; she could be touching you; she could verbalize her intent to you. Any of these signals might be enough to give you the go-ahead.
And once you’ve finally reached that stage where you’re ready to take it to the next step you’ll want to know the three powerful questions you must ask her–
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Your friend,
-Vin
