Define your priorities and make sure getting close to her is near the top
I am about to tell you an extremely sad and surprising story – I know there are a bunch of guys out there that fail to even try. It’s almost as if they expect the woman of their dreams to drop in their lap.
If you think you have a rough time meeting and keeping women right now just imagine what would happen if all of the hopeful wishers, dreamers, and wall flowers came out of the woodwork and began to bombard your territory?
Maybe you’re one of those guys, and you now know where you’ve failed: dating hasn’t been enough of a priority in your life…
1. Make Dating a Priority In Your Life
It’s not an urgent feeling for them. It’s not a feeling like a gun is against the guy’s head and he’s going crazy for it.
No matter who the guy is or what his situation, if he’s hungry enough, he’s going to get dates.Guys focus too much on trying to learn things like dating secrets but really this is the key. It’s not a matter of life and death, but if it were, the chances that the guy would wake up and take some action would be far greater.
2. Start NOW
Guys have got to see this as the paramount important feature of their young, studly lives. It’s not going to get easier to start the process as you get older! You don’t want to wait until you are middle-aged to start learning how to talk to women, do you know what I mean?
Starting to go gray and wrinkly? Carpe diem, my friends! Seize the day!
3. Plan A Solid First Date
So what are some of my first date tips, in terms of where to take a girl on a date or how to set a date up?
I would keep it casual.
For me, it’s more about just seeing her being on her own. I’ve got to say, probably the best activity I like is the idea of walking dates.
Doing something where you can walk together, whether it’s doing some window shopping or going to an outdoor event, or maybe grabbing a coffee and then going for a walk to get some chocolate; doing something that involves moving is always a good idea.
4. What Should You Think About?
What should be your focus when you first start dating women? What’s the best way to learn what you need to know and to make the most improvement in the shortest period of time?
Without a doubt, seeing how far you can push it should be your main focus.
Trying to get her back to your house, trying to get her naked, seeing if you can have sex; just get in the habit of pushing each date as far as possible. Not in an obnoxious way, you understand. I am talking about a gradual escalation. You know when you’re playing a computer game, when it is intuitive for you to try to get further each time you play?
It’s very much the same when you start dating women.
5. What Not To Do
Are there any good tips for guys that I have in terms of what not to do on a date?
I think that you want to avoid putting on too much pressure, like a serious dinner or an interview-style date, or where you’re sitting across from each other and she’s laying all these questions on you.
That’s the main thing you want to avoid as much as possible — that kind of serious, intense, interview-style frame in a date. You want to keep it relaxed and chilled-out, fun and easygoing, and more like an adventure; more like going to Six Flags for the day and going on a few rides, rather than some sort of serious event.
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