Did you know that many women CRAVE dirty talk?
Surprised? Read on and I will explain why!
A lot of guys feel awkward about talking dirty, or believe that girls don’t like it. Don’t be like these guys! Dirty talk is actually one of the fastest way to get a woman wet because her largest sexual organ is her mind, and her ears are a direct portal to that wanton zone of lust.
By using dirty talk properly, you can appear sexually confident, encourage your partner to unleash her inner vixen, and take your sex life to a whole new level. And that means that you will become more sexual in the process!
I want to share three essential dirty talk tips with you:
- Understand female psychology.
- Keep it fun.
- Use instruction.
The right words will transform her into a sex fiend!
Tip #1: Understand female psychology
Still wondering why many women actually love dirty talk? Here’s the answer: women value communication. They love to talk and they tend to speak far more words in an average day than men. Sex without any words can work, but it also can be very boring.
By using dirty talk in bed, you can lead the experience, build your partner’s confidence, and push the sexual tension up to a whole new level. It shows that you are sexually comfortable and not a boring lay. Just like men, women can sometimes feel nervous about having sex or insecure about their sexual abilities. Dirty talk can help your partner relax and let loose.
Tip #2: Keep it fun
One of the mistakes that a lot of guys make is over-thinking what to do or say. Worrying about how to come up with the perfect line defeats the whole point of dirty talk: it’s supposed to be fun and spontaneous, not serious and rehearsed!
If you find yourself wondering about what to say or which line to use, just relax and give yourself permission to go with the flow. Don’t take it too seriously or think too much about it. Certainly don’t deliver any dirty talk in a serious voice. And if you are really nervous, don’t do it.
If you are struggling to use dirty talk naturally, then try visualizing all women as being extremely sexual. Don’t be distracted by their outside appearance, even if they seem to be very conservative. If you see dirty talk as a way of tapping into their wild side, then you will feel less inhibited or awkward about using it.
Tip #3: Use instruction
In my opinion, the best dirty talk to use is instructional. This is where you tell your partner what to do, like “get on top,” “keep going,” or “bend over.” I am sure that you can think of many more (and much more explicit!) examples.
Anything that encourages your partner to go wild and blow your mind is great. You may be surprised by how well women will respond to this. Most girls want to please their partners, so telling them what to do can actually be a big turn on for them.
Bonus tips!
When it comes to dirty talk, there are many traps to avoid. So here are some quick do’s and don’ts:
Do:
- Compliment her and tell her how sexy she is.
- Reassure her that she has a great body.
- Build her sexual confidence and tell her how amazing she is in bed.
- Tell her how fantastic it feels whenever she pleasures you.
Don’t:
- Overdo it or try too hard.
- Keep doing it if it feels like she isn’t really into it.
- Say the same thing over and over.
- Do it too much (less is more!)
Can certain words turn women on? Science says that they can! What’s even more interesting: the right words, whispered at the right time can send a woman over the edge into a full body orgasm!
Stop paying for dirty talk filled porns and still get her horny as hell by dropping the 30 innocently naughty words into your every day conversation. You’ll love your results and women begin to squirm without knowing why, and desire nothing more than to writhe under your naked body. Go check it out now before I pull it (you’ll see why I have to inside) and learn what scientists have discovered about how to get any woman into bed.
