We often get letters seeking advice on what certain dirty talk questions could be asked that could lead to sex. How to go about it, how to lead in to it, and what do you say when you say it?
Following is a letter we just received yesterday, and is just a sample of the many that we receive on the subject of dirty talk.
Dear Vin,
I’m really trying to take things to a more sexual level when I go out so I’m not getting put in the friend zone. I’m having trouble taking the conversation to a sexual level. I’m wondering what kind of questions I can use to ease into it? How can I ask her about sex without just coming straight out and saying it or is that actually an okay thing to do?
Sanford from Connecticut
What are your thoughts on this matter. Do you agree of disagree with the examples used? Or, do you have better examples that you have used? I’d love to hear your comments in the box below.
Dirty talk in the form of questions can be great foreplay.
It’s definitely okay to come out directly and talk about sex. Make sex a game, and get comfortable at asking questions and making statements about sex, and discuss sexual preferences. When you come up with some dirty talk phrases, then sex becomes much more exciting. You are able to find out what turns her on, and she will know what turns you on. Just think how hot sex can be when you already know the how-tos?
Following are some dirty talk examples to get your game going. Asking sexual questions is great mental foreplay. After reading these, you can probably come up with a few of your own.
Number one: What’s your favorite position?
Getting a girl to talk about her favorite position is an easy way of bringing the conversation towards sex. It will also most likely be the first position you try, and will hopefully lead to many more interesting positions that one or both of you have always wanted to discover.
Number two: Most adventurous place that you’ve had sex?
This can be great because it brings out her adventurous side. It also can take the conversation to all different levels. You might find yourself trying to outdo each other on the most outrageous places that you’ve had sex. This topic might also give you ideas of places you’ve never thought of.
Number three: What’s the most amount of times that you’ve had sex in one day?
This will give you the opportunity to demonstrate higher value about yourself. If you can say that you’ve had sex nine times with a girl, you will realize that you have the capacity to just go on and on and on. It’s a proven fact that it takes a man longer to recoup after sex and start again, so once you realize that there have been times when you’ve acted like superman, your head will swell. Hopefully, it will be the right head.
Number four: What’s the longest session of sex you’ve had?
This will give you an idea of what she wants from sex. How she likes it, and how long she can take it. It will also give you an idea on whether you need to pace yourself and slow down. You’ll also have the advantage of knowing what satisfies her in bed.
Number five: Most embarrassing moment that you’ve had with sex?
This will makes you both more comfortable with sex. The dirty talk becomes a bit light-hearted, and gives you an opportunity to reveal some vulnerable moments about yourself. Being able to laugh at yourself is a great mood booster as well. You’ll both probably have some great stories to tell.
Number six: When did you lose your virginity?
For me, I lost my virginity late so it actually gave me an opportunity to reveal more personal information about myself and reveal my own vulnerability. It also made her feel better, because she realized I wasn’t just some horny kid thinking about sex all the time as I was growing up. It’s nice to show a softer side at times.
Number seven: How long has it been since you last had sex?
This can be great because it can give you a bit of insight, and regardless of what she says, unless it was twelve hours ago, you’re response can be, “Wow, that’s way too long”!
Number eight: What sexual fantasies do you have?
Girls have the most incredible sexual fantasies. If you can get her talking about those and picturing them in her head, this could lead her to become really horny, and perhaps want to try some of those fantasies out on you.
Number nine: What’s something that a guy has done that turned you on?
Go further with the question and be specific. What was something that you didn’t expect and surprised you? This will get her thinking about sex and hopefully get you in a position where you can replay that scenario for her. It will also help you learn how to make her horny.
Number ten: Your place or mine?
This basically is a direct line you can use once you get comfortable with the idea of talking about sex and can actually come out and directly state it. You just might get lucky and she says “either one, it doesn’t matter”.
Just make sure you respect her space and she’s completely comfortable. Often you’ll find that girls will respond powerfully to dirty talk when it comes off as asking questions, and hopefully the questions will lead to a great sexual escapade.
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