Is she still looking at you?
Ignoring women has the opposite effect in attraction. If your wingman says “Yes,” you better make your move – and quick.
Read on for simple tips to attract women…
***And when you are finished reading… please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations with attracting women. I’d like to help and will try to answer each comment personally.
Playing hard to get does not work…
Guys like to think they can attract women by ignoring them. They play hard to get because they believe that it is a successful way to pick up women. This might have worked for them when they were younger, so they think that it’s still the way to go in attracting women now.
In small doses, playing hard to get may work. Showing a small amount of disinterest may present a little bit of a challenge and could possibly go a long way-if you’re lucky, but it’s usually not a good dating strategy to use in the long run.
If your game strategy is based on picking up women by ignoring them, you will most likely fail. This should not be the foundation of your dating strategy because attractive women do not have the patience to for this kind of game. It simply takes too long.
Plus, women in the long run don’t like being ignored, at least not for very long. So if your plan is use it now to get dates, you will find it doesn’t get you many dates at all. Women don’t like being ignored. They like attention, and they like it often. If you try to go in the opposite direction, and show attention, you’re game will most likely improve.
If you want to learn how to do it retro style, check out the television show Mad Men. This is how they used to do it back in the day. You’ll see them being very upfront and obvious with women. Very different to nice guy’s of today’s age. Half the problem is that our modern society is so civilized and politically correct that guys are really confused and even scared about doing the wrong thing, and making women feel uncomfortable.
I hear from a lot of guys that they are afraid of doing something wrong, and they are really unsure how much interest you are allowed to show. Often they are scared of being that “sleazy guy” but being the nice guy doesn’t work either. My recommendation is to act a bit more like the guys from Mad Men and see how it works for you. I’ve found that being direct works better than anything else by far.
Show your interest
Rather than attracting women by ignoring them, I recommend that you do the opposite. Attract them by showing interest in them immediately. You may receive some negative reactions and experience a bit of resistance, but you should be patient and keep working at it. As with anything in life, patience is a virtue. And in the dating world, it is especially true.
The problem with trying to attract women by ignoring them is that you waste a lot of time on women that are not interested in you. In my experience, it is much more effective to show interest when you meet a women and then be persistent in the attention you show her.
Rather than attracting women by ignoring them, hit on the ones that attract you directly, and be somewhat obvious. High quality women do not want guys that follow the dating advice that traditionally says to play hard to get. These women are more attracted to a guy with confidence who is not afraid to show interest immediately.
Just go for it…
Switch from a method where you attract women by ignoring them to a plan where you go for it. In fact, it is a women’s job to be the one playing hard to get, so persistence on your part is the name of the game. Watch her body language though, because if she is truly not interested in you, move on to someone else who is. Don’t waste your time, or her’s, by hitting on someone who is truly not into you.
So, grow up, and change your game from one when you were younger. Women don’t like being ignored, in fact they like being slobbered over (not literally). Don’t ignore them if you are truly interested, because that will get you no where and make her think you are not interested.
Show interest, and she may just show interest back. Interest goes a long way in getting dates, and getting the attention of an attractive woman. Forget about ignoring, that is so yesterday.
***Remember: Please share one of your frustrations with attracting women in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer your comment personally.
Instead why don’t you focus on how to get what you really want from her…
- Her digits
- A hot date
- Her body pressed against yours
You might believe that you can do that by “being nice” or “just being confident,” but that’s not going to cut it.
Sooner or later you’ll realize that you need the secrets to unlocking her brain so that you know exactly what she’s thinking, what to say, and how to act to get her to break all her innocent little first date rules…
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