Women are known to be readers, and erotic literature happens to be in their top 10 favorites. What does this tell us about the female mind in regards to dating and sex?
Female erotic literature literally floods the market, including everything from women magazines, Harlequin romance novels, Playgirl, and online websites. You name it, it’s out there.
Women read this stuff like nothing else. This should be your clue as to some of the things that you need to be aware of and what you can learn from reading erotic literature yourself.
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Get down to your library and read some of the erotic literature out there.
You need to get a sense of what makes saucy stories so appealing to women. Knowing how women think, and why they think, will improve your understanding of them. And your success! Often, a big part of why women read eroticism is because it causes them to have incredibly powerful fantasies based around sex. Their minds just run wild with thoughts.
There was a book that came out in the seventies written by Nancy Friday: My Secret Garden, which collated a whole variety of women’s sexual fantasies. It was basically a book that was aimed at liberating females and help them to recognize that other women were having the same sexual fantasies that they were having.
You should take the time to read it. It will open your eyes as and make YOU realize that women like sex and think about sex as much as you do. You need to understand that women read erotic literature because they identify with it; they have powerful thoughts about sex and think about it constantly. Their fantasies are many times created through the literature they read.
Language that is used in erotic literature if often overt.
Erotic literature stories use a lot of words that hint at what is happening but they don’t directly say it. It’s usually overt and reading in between the lines. The reason that this is powerful is because women have their own visions about how they like sex.
They may like a particular position, or like it when the guy is a little bit more dominant. They may even like it when he’s a little bit more submissive. These romance novels women so thrive on often utilize language that basically draws the dots for them, and allows her to join the dots up in her own head.
This is why you should take the time to read a few, so that you can elicit powerful sexual responses from her. Women have wild imaginations, and fantasy novels just embellish it to a level that you need to take advantage of. You want to get into a woman’s mind? Read what she reads!
You will have an amazing amount of success with face to face conversation, but more so over text messages. Texting a girl is an avenue where you can get in touch with being sexual, but phrase things in a way that allows her to create the picture in her own head of what you’re going to do with her. Women get turned on by these kinds of subtleties.
There’s definitely value in reading erotic literature and being aware of why it’s so appealing to women. This will help you incorporate that language style and concepts into your own game, and will take you to a level you wish you’d hit earlier.
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